I made out for the first time yesterday. It was her first time as well. Honestly I had no clue what to do. We did the neck kissing pretty well, but the french kissing was a disaster. She talked about it and we were like maybe we should make out without the french kissing until we get better. I agreed, but what other things should I do to make her feel good besides kissing her neck? Examples of what some of you guys do would be nice.
Well, in the porn I watch, I don't see any kissing or making out. Just fucking...or sucking.
Just look for porn with kissing, it's all over the internet.
Alright, I think I found just what I was looking for!
As lovely LOOKING as that kiss is (as it was, well, planned for TV, I take it) I would highly recommended not taking the first 13-15 seconds to heart. As sweet as licking lips and pulling at her tongue may look, it is best kept to a minimum as kisses can quickly get sort of... wet. And disastrous.
Oh okay, thanks. I'm thinking of using the technique I saw in the yahoo video for 13-15 seconds to start things off, then moving on. I've been looking at french kissing videos all day. Hopefully they will help me out tomorrow when I get another chance to redeem myself (HOPEFULLY). So basically, we're just locking lips and touching each other's tongues while our lips are still locked? Then occasionally we'll switch to another position and do the same thing?
Kind of. You want to gently stroke her tongue with yours and, for lack of better words, swirl tongues around each other. Don't over-think it-- it's a very intuitive thing.
I've been making out with my girlfriend for a while and I still don't know what I'm doing. She tells me I'm not that bad, but it really is guesswork. Some sites say 'try different things and see what they like,' but I don't see how to judge their reaction when you're kissing unless they moan in pleasure or something. (She did that only once, unfortunately I wasn't thinking about what I was doing at the time so I have no idea what it was.)
To start things off, kiss her with both your mouths open a little bit. Go slowly and kinda poke your tounge in, a little more each time.
From there, it should just kinda come to you naturally. Just do whatever you think feels right.