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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 12:17 ID:3KiIL7jw

I've debated this for a long time... I'm 26, and have felt more & more lonely, and angry & disappointed over that, over the past couple years, as I watch everyone around me being couples, holding hands, things like that... I've only had one serious relationship, earlier this year, and it ended because while I was honest & pure about caring about her, the girl lied about "loving me", and got herself carried away playing a game with the entire thing, and never meant to have a relationship (at least she treated everyone else in our circle like crap as well, so noone talks to her anymore)...

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 13:32 ID:XEfhAboQ

It's the same story, time after time...

Women want a man. Not a nice guy. Especially not a guy who thinks he's the nicest guy around. There are too many sites out there about this, the ladder theory, sosuave.com, http://heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml, the general idea is that women sense your loneliness and discontent, and run from it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 13:34 ID:2hI937u6

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-02 12:56 ID:FcDS4YeK

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>>the general idea is that women sense your loneliness and discontent, and run from it.
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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-02 15:26 ID:XEfhAboQ

Yes, it is a bit paradoxical. But you can still want them, just don't show it. Sort of like how girls stereotypically play "hard-to-get" to attract guys.

7 Name: >>1 : 2007-08-02 17:59 ID:lJrQj0s3

Hmm... I'm >>1 and I don't even remember making this thread.... I made another thread w/ the same text, but in that one, I continued into a second post... Don't remember making this one...

Regardless, however it got copy/pasta'd the facts, and my feelings remain...

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 00:12 ID:/FtpVPhv

I think you're looking at girls in extremes; the kind of girl that "[wants] a nice, sensitive guy, who loves them purely, and believes in true love, and does romantic things" is sort of an innocent, naive stereotype, whereas those that like "playahs, party animals, and sex-crazed guys" are really the darker but much more visible minority.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 02:18 ID:9iz4zOts

I don't want someone hard to get, I want someone easy to get.

10 Name: >>1 : 2007-08-03 18:56 ID:lJrQj0s3

>>8 I've been hearing that more & more often.. I suppose it's ok to be a bit aggressive, and more take-charge... I'm going to try to let that dark aggressive part of me out, but try to keep it in check... It really is harder & harder lately not to give in to that self-destructive womanizer urge after experiencing so much disappointment and being so angry and disgusted over it...

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