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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 11:03 ID:X/rrZ8DU

i met this girl for only 2 weeks, we're pretty close as we talk on the phone almost everday for like 3-4 hours and once went for 8 hours, we seem to get along really well and i make her laugh alot. i went to see her one night cos she was sick and shes told me stuff that not even her best friend knows about it. but the problem is i dont know if she likes me cos shes so use to hang out with guys and stuff and apparently shes a attention seeker. she always tell me to call her and stuff so i'm really confused cos if she doens't like me and i confess to her, our friendship is gonna break, so little help here please!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 12:40 ID:4Msw/aZ5

As I see it you're stuck in the friend zone and up until know I know no tricks to get out of there.

I might be wrong though.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 13:38 ID:Fho0bo6D

theres definitely a chance that you can bring this to a relationship, but careful though, attention seeking women are very insecure and you might have to sacrifice lots of things if you do go out with her. this is how exactly my ex and i started, but i couldn't take her insecurity so we broke up after a year

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-03 16:14 ID:YoYHVios

i suggest you let her know you're interested in a very casual off-hand sort of way, in which case it should be a lot less awkward if she doesnt reciprocate you're feelings. As a female that tends to have male friends, i can tell you that many females as such are happy to keep being friends with guys that have confessed to them...the onl issue is avoiding any major initial awkwardness.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-04 01:46 ID:X/rrZ8DU

op here
>>4 well we talk alot about relationships in the past, what its like and stuff. sometimes she often say how lonley she is now cos shes single and stuff so i thought maybe that was some sign or something. shes also come to my house a few times cos she wants me to teach her piano and stuff, but last nite she said something that caught my attention. we were chatting and suddenly she said " i think you spent too much time on the girl u like" i was confused again so i said 'wat do u mean?" then she goes on saying how its a waste cos i kept getting rejected in the past and its better not to like someone. when she told me that, i thought maybe she already have an idea that i might like her and is trying to hint to me that she doens't like me or something. but if thats true, shes been leading me as if shes interested in me or that she likes me.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-08 19:43 ID:SsO6ta85

>>4

I agree with 4,

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-09 08:53 ID:X/rrZ8DU

apparently she knew i liked her for like 2 weeks and now shes just pretending i dont exist when it was all normal the other day. my friend said she does this to people when she knows they like her and she slightly likes them, she just ignroes them and see thier reaction. my friend suggested to do the same and act if u dont really care if she does start talking, but i really doubt she'll talk to me, kinda annoys me since i was being used a bit...

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-10 12:46 ID:W/3xk4Bo

hmmmn...sounds a lot like a typical attention seeker. I suggest keeping away from such an immature and probably selfish girl entirely.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-10 13:46 ID:NDFl8Y6H

>>8

Agreed, dont waste time on them, at best let them waste time on you