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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-04 06:11 ID:HeqE43X2

I've been around here a few times I was the author of http://4-ch.net/love/kareha.pl/1173213584/l50

Long story short, I developed an up-tightness and frigidity about women, maybe due to that, maybe due to something else, maybe both.

So, last night I went to a party. I get kind of depressed at parties when there's a larger group (larger than, say, six people), so I was just standing away from everyone, minding my own business and looking out for the people who were legless. Then the host comes over (girl, attractive, etc.), so I put on my whole "I'm a loner" act, but she doesn't leave me alone. Throughout the evening, she was hugging me, attaching herself to my arm, etc.

When there were a few people left (there was me, her, another girl, some back country dude and this guy who was slipping in and out of consciousness, she's getting cold so I give her my jumper. Then she's snuggling up to me. Like, arms around me, resting against my chest on the ground.

So, this morning I asked her if she wanted to pursue it or just leave it as a thing that just happened. She wanted to continue it, which I was more than happy to acquiesce to.

So, now I have a girlfriend again, and this is where I need your help. I won't be able to see her THAT often as I work a forty hour week and she lives about an hour away from me by car. How often to I contact her without seeming like a creepy stalker, but showing her that I care about her and want to know what's going on?

Sorry about the massive wall of text, too, by the way.