Well I read one of the recent threads about masterbation. it said
so yeah houston we have a problem.
practice when masturbating.
With a bit of practice and proper breathing and relaxation, you can masturbate for as long as you want without building up climax. Then you can "let go" and build up orgasm and cum.
Yeah, and masturbation won't cause premature cum, if anything, it'll help prevent it.
dont masturbate within like 12 hrs before sexing the GF
if you use a condom get those ones that kinda prolong ejaculation.
Now when you've penetrated her pussy you need to learn how to penetrate her heart too, if are with her that intimately you can make her come faster than you do. When are you going to learn, it's all about the mind.
Postponing climax is like putting out your own fire so you don't burn out before she gets time to fire up hers, thats not solving the issue thats learning to live with it. For true fullfilment you should figure out how to put her on flames instead. That, so you can have truly hot sex in a way most people never experience it, because they are dumb fucks who fail to get the point about relationships.
Don't LOWER your expectations. Have realistic expectations. Don't go after the girl athlete that's interested in shopping if you're an engineering student who has never even stepped in a sporting goods store.
Don't listen to him, you should always masturbate before sex if you have the chance. Think of it as your balls have to recharge before they can cum again thus making it to where you can sex longer.
I dream having hot sex with female anime-characters.
They are just perfect, so beautifull :))!
Here's a trick I learned which works for me: have sex twice in the same session.
The first time I'm like, bam. Gone in 30 seconds and no ability to control it. Wait five minutes and get back up again, and suddenly it's easier to control. I can go for 30 minutes, although my body takes a pretty big hit from all that exercise.
>>12 30 minutes isn't bad.
What you really want to shoot for is at least an hour or two.
One thing I find when I'm sexing and some of my ways of being able to go for hours on end.
>What you really want to shoot for is at least an hour or two.
you pumping away at her for an hour or two without climaxing won't make her feel insecure and unsexy at all...
dont worry about anything. just swing ur dick hard
Er...as a female, I've got to tell you guys...10 minutes of sex and an hour of foreplay > 10 minutes of foreplay and an hour of sex.
Just so you know. You pump away mindlessly for two hours and it starts to fucking hurt. And get boring. REALLY fucking boring.
I read an article that seemed to suggest making sure she has an orgasm before you even start - i.e., give her oral, or any other trick you have before you have sex. Girls can have multiple orgasms, men can't, so if she has the first one, she's more likely to have a second one after that. PLUS, you can focus on her, which you can't really do if you're having sex because your own feelings may override hers (that awkward position that just sucks for you might be amazing for her)
There's worse problems, at least you can orgasm from sex.
You have to stage something. Get some bully to go up an threaten her. Then come to her rescue. The bully will flatten you, and she'll be impressed by his Alpha-male status and go off with him. On second thoughts, you better play the bully.
Oops. Meant for other thread. Well you can try this here too!
You are thinking about it too much. PE is more often than not psychological depending on your age. Relax, don't be nervous, and fuck her slow and steady. Talk to her, let her know that you want to try to make it last. When my girlfriend and I first started fucking it was like that with me too, and she worked with me to make it better. Penetrate her missionary, and then instead of thrusting, lean forward and make out with her, massage/kiss her neck and breasts. Don't thrust at all, or at least as little as possible. It'll get your penis used to the sensation of being inside of her pussy. Just make sure to lean back and rub her clit from time to time, otherwise it'll be nowhere near as enjoyable for her as it is for you :-P.