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Help::: should i like him or not? (23)

1 Name: girl : 2007-08-30 21:52 ID:6uBm/mWT

there's someone i like online but i'm at the same time afraid to like them :\ they live reallllly far away . i don't know exactly what to do either. i dont want them to think i'm weird T.T!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:08 ID:ORSSwpmp


3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:08 ID:ORSSwpmp


4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:08 ID:ORSSwpmp


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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:08 ID:SbUnTp6f

If you're a hot girl with nice tits, they won't care how far away you are.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-31 07:35 ID:Heaven

Wrong, it'll bother them if they're a "catch" because they'll know the girl has no problem getting any and there's no way to maintain exclusitivity.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-01 08:09 ID:76zW+no4

there's someone i like but im afraid to like him. because hes not far away away like physicly but like far away like emotionelly.

how do u love someone like that? its so hard T_T. i look at people writing here with their cute little troubles, so unaware of the physicle pain of love. i feel so alone. i wish they would understand.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-01 18:17 ID:AAhI+Wh1

give it up its not going to work out

10 Name: Hamtaro78 : 2007-09-02 18:01 ID:OeVsrimr long have you know each other? Weeks? Months? Years?

11 Name: girl : 2007-09-03 20:33 ID:t+IBi5/P

It's been a few months. (counts) about 6 months. too soon to like someone? or what?

Thanks for the advice so far ^0^ I need your help T.T

12 Name: Hamtaro78 : 2007-09-04 05:57 ID:OeVsrimr

Hmm. Half a year. Hard to tell. When you talk to people online long enough, you know them better than people offline know them. You let go of your inhibitions when you're safe behind the monitor as a faceless entity. It happens a lot on messgabe boards where people will be talking to each toher for years and become ebst of friends. Sometimes they even evetually meet up IRL. I guess the only thing I can tell you is to keep talking and stay friends at least. No use in letting a perfectly good friendship go to waste. And maybe as time goes on, your feeling towards each other will develop and you'll know if you should pursue a more intimate relationship.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-04 10:11 ID:w5ixOPCr

> When you talk to people online long enough, you know them better than people offline know them.

A lot of people tend to find it easier to open up when they're hiding behind a screen. So you're probably inclined to think you know them better than "offline" people. But it's ironic. If they're hiding behind a screen, then you can't really say that's the "real them".

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14 Name: girl : 2007-09-04 20:54 ID:t+IBi5/P

wow you guys are really great! that's really true. I really agree with you guys! I'm staying optimistic and i'm really thankful for being friends with him ^0^!!

I also call him every so often. At least a couple times a week. It's kinda nice to talk that way or skype (since its free) but calling is really cool too. Sometimes he calls me too XD; it's nice ~~~

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-04 23:57 ID:y/zSvhBT

I used to do it with someone I was dating online. We stopped dating, but we still remain good friends.

I feel for you though, Except the girl I like lives back in my hometown. I sadly didn't get to know her before I moved over 500 miles away. If I did, I probably wouldn't be in this state now. Ha.

16 Name: girl : 2007-09-05 23:35 ID:t+IBi5/P


that's really sad :( yeah isn't destiny funny like that??? u move away then u get to know someone who lived close to u... sucks..

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17 Name: Anonymous : 2007-09-06 13:15 ID:UjmYi2Ys

that sounded REALLY condescending
liek you're the only one here who knows what they're talking about
just letting you know

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18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-06 13:20 ID:UjmYi2Ys

the nice ones aren't always far away
the problem is finding them
i consider myself a nice guy, if only because of my moral standings and how disgusted i am with the typical male mentality

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-06 21:02 ID:APmOd3x7

heh, I don't even give myself the chance to get awkward.


20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-06 21:10 ID:APmOd3x7

Dunno what to say to you, btw.

I was in the same situtation with having known someone online for 4 years, having a crush on them for the last two.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 15:04 ID:1/47cr2o

I met my ex online. We talked for maybe half a year online before meeting up. I didn't have to worry about her thinking I'm weird because I really am weird. And she was weird too so it actually worked out pretty well, at least for a few years.

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22 Name: girl : 2007-09-16 14:39 ID:lxNL170V


that's lucky :\...

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-16 15:46 ID:Jr0p09mI

A lot of people have online relationships, sweetie. It's becoming rather common, I think. Who knows how things will go for you, though? If you like him and he likes you, then I don't think there's any harm in at least trying. And if it doesn't work out, hopefully you can still be friends. This isn't strange.