Is it normal or appropriate to get a hard-on? I want both male and female opinions if possible.
Female Opinion: NO.
Well, it depends on the dance... how sexy was it?
Also depends on how old you are, and how old your girl is. If you're say, in high school, she'd probably take it meaning you're some sort of pervert, but past that, some girls might take it as a compliment.
It's normal to get a hard-on. Nothing to do about it, when you are a healthy male, really like the girl and haven't had sex. Not that she would like it though. They will be FUCKING spooked out.
Hey guys, OP here
I was just putting my arm around the girl from behind, my whole front and her back were in contact, and my thing was right where her ass was, we were kind of grinding too. I think she felt it but didn't say anything and we kept dancing.
By the way I didn't like the girl that much, she was ok, it was just that the scene reminded me of me dancing/grinding with my ex and I got a hard-on.
It's normal to get a hard on... period. Your body is going to react the way it's going to react, whether you want it to or not. Don't be so hard on yourself (no pun intended). It may be frowned upon by the girl, depending on what she's like.. but don't let her or anyone else (#2) tell you it's not NORMAL. Shit, it's probably more normal to be turned on by grinding with a hot girl than not turned on by grinding with a hot girl :-P
I get a hard on every time I dance with a girl like that (grabbing the hips and all). I mean, her ass is against my dick. What do you expect? Geez. They never said anything about it and we just kept dancing, but if they ever did, I would tell them what I just posted here.
If a girl gives you crap for this, especially with that sort of dance, she's a total bitch. Now, if you were ballroom dancing with very even spacing and you pop a big massive boner, that would be hilarious.
Baby when we're grinding
I get so excited
Oh, how I like it
I try but I can't fight it
Hey, I hate to get off topic, but...
How do you dance with a girl?
Step, step, sashay, lead, don't step on her toes, etc.
Dont Expect all gurls to know how to dance
is not going to take his g/f clubbing anymoar
she looks lieks a loser then tells me that I dance funny?
if only she knew that most of the gurls there liek to get funky with me
I think they said something about lieking mudkips.
Normal? Yes. Appropriate? Depends on your relationship with the girl. If you've got something go, let her feel it. The only woman that wouldn't be turned on by a guy being turned on by her is one who has deep rooted personal problems.
Oops. I meant "already going on with her". Don't do it to her mother though (unless her Mum is divorced and really hot)