I have a huge problem.
I've been in love with this girl since january of 2006
Problem is, since last september i've had a girlfriend who isn't her
I'm recently realizing that i don't love my girlfriend even nearly as much as this other girl.
Easy. Dump your current girlfriend. She'll be unhappy but it's the best thing for her and she'll find a decent guy who really loves her. Ask other girl out. If it works out, great. If it doesn't, you did the right thing and eventually there will be someone else.
that's the thing, i still DO love my current
and i loathe the thought of anyone else touching her
and she's absolutely crazy about me (which i've never understood)
The solution is simple, stop thinking about this other bitch.
Also, instead of making it so your gf's grades are lowered, make sure she gets the time she needs for schoolwork, you can even do school-related shit together.
I would ask the other girl out before breaking up with the safe bet. If she says yes, then tell her you can't go out with her until you break it off with the current girlfriend. This way it isn't cheating. And I suppose if she says no, then you might be able to get comfort sex...
Don't bother with the other girl. She's just an infatuation, and it will pass. You say you love your girlfriend, so stay faithful and be strong. I'd also break off contact with the other girl for a while [or forever] so you can start to forget about her.
Help your current G/F with her studies, like do flash cards, quiz her, things like that. It'll be a LOT easier for her to remember things if the one she loves shows that he cares about her education that much. Plus spending more time together will hopefully bring you closer to each other emotionally. Good luck! =]
Good advice, on 4-ch???
Also your love for someone grows if you treat them lovingly yourself, the relationship will grow stronger so you have nothing to loose. Invest in your girlfriend, do things for her.
Loving two people at once does happen. It's hard to classify something as "just an infatuation" 100% of the time because sometimes, you really do run into the real love of your life while you happen to be seeing someone else. I mean, if it never happened, life would be too conveniently arranged.
Rape them both