Okay following situation.
E-dating a girl for almost a year now. We finnaly going to meet each other soon. We talked about sex and such, and want to have our first time together. The problem is, im just a shy b-tard. I still cant believe i got a chance to sleep with a girl i love. Im just afraid that i will miss that chance.
Try discussing the topic with her. I bet she feels a bit awkward too. Hasn't it ever come up?
Of course afterwards you go back to whatever the place where you staying. There is sofa or bed on which can sit together. Continue conversation from before. Or listen to some tracks together. Sharing earphones from musicplayer very convenient because lot of control and need to be close to each other.
a) smooth: conversation slows down. eyecontact increase. Turn conversation to together. ie. "now that we here in real life, what you think of us?" or simply, "so, what about us?"
If its your first time ever meeting her, I suggest you dont try and force sex or anything. Let the first date just break the ice. By the third or even second date you should feel a lot more comfortable around each other to not be worried about what to do after, and just let it come naturally.
Yeah. B-tardness is not the way to go with real life girls.
You'll only come off as a jerk if you even bring up the topic of sex on the first meeting with her. And it won't be nearly as funny nor witty as it sounds on the internet. Plus, it sounds like you need to learn how to get to first base before you even contemplate third.
Thanks for your advices.
We are really far away from each other so there wont be a second date soon. I'll just wait for the right moment. And if that moment wont come, shit happens, sex isnt everything...
Sounds like a job well done. Nice one 4ch!!