What the hell do girls find attractive?
Something different to being confident and fit and healthy, I am those..and it isn't just that.
while its good to be healthy you'll probably need to have confidence and a good personality so that they can actually relate to you, no point being healthy if your scary to talk to, or hard to talk to or can't be easily approached. That and you need to be able to go out there and make some new female friends
Not to big myself up again, but I do have a friendly personality, i'm quite open too, I dont really hold any secrets.
I think being yourself, within reason, and honesty and such are the best way. I've tried many different tactics to get people to notice me, and it seems that just being fun, yet calm & talking about anything honestly & frankly is the best way to get people's attention.
Get a good hairstyle! As a female, I am endlessly frustrated by the amount of guys i see around these days who have bad hair, and would look pretty hot if they had good hair.
Bad hair: usually shaved, bald, or just about any of the really short cuts that are sooo verry common these days.
Good hair: usualy a little bit longer looks good. have a hairdresser give it a nice cut. fringes often look hot- for example, a normal looking guy with a toned-down version of an emo fringe can look very hot.
It is possible to fall for a very average looking guy based on their personalities. But that often involves special circumstances, or more commonly, a lot of time. Unless you're incredibly charming and funny, or you're willing to gamble the "friendship zone", making a visual impression will be an easier way to better your chances.
It's smell for me.
Time to stock up on pheromones.
OK, now I've got to ask, out of my own curiosity, do these always-spam-advertised pheromone-based colognes even work? Has anyone actually used anything like this??
When they sit down close to you, don't automatically shift away from them. I did this for a while, completely subconsciously, then I realized, "Hey, they wouldn't have sat this close to me if they didn't mind it."
I remember there being a test done. Infact, various test done. That state that the pheremone crap doesn't work.
Guys are lucky. Mostly it's attitude: Assuming the girl isn't f*ked in the head they like self-assured confidence, sense of humor and warmth and kindness (not wussiness: it's different). Most guys by definition have average looks. Hey if you have six-pack abs and are buff and cute, all the more power to you, but truth is you have to be extemely ugly before you have any problems. Enjoy life.
I can't believe no one said money lol
This is the only real way to attract girls.
If you have enough money, you can take your pick.
show 'em your dong
100% correct. With an infinite money hack, you have no more worries about girls.
Although life can be a bitch, you might accidentally fall in love with the one girl in the entire world who doesn't enjoy money. If such a thing even exists.
Girls aren't so shallow to like money. It only seems that way, because when you, a man, have money, you have confidence. And the confidence shows.
Not just the confidence, but the excessive amounts of gifts. Guys who have millions of dollars can afford to waste it on that sort of stuff, whereas the rest of us can't.
It's mostly the confidence thing though. That's why you can sometimes see some broke ass men with some good or atleast average looking women.
Yeah, but imagine what they'd get if they were also rich.
Everyone dreams of being rich or having more money then they need. It's not a crime. And if all you gonna do is complain and whine about it, You either do two things.
Nobody's really complaining about not being rich. I was just stating a piece of knowledge which I have gained from my own personal experience.
Besides, if women really weren't after money, the whole enjo kosai concept wouldn't exist.
> Although I should be wary of trolls, but I don't care.
This is my attitude when browsing 4-ch. It makes it more fun.
Reading threads like this one makes me never want to have a relationship ever
Even if girls weren't after your money, they would probably at least want you to have some.
As a guy, I feel I shouldn't even have a girlfrind unless I have some soft of income, so I wouldn't have to rely on her if I needed money (which would be horrible), and so I can help pay for any activities we do together.
... Money means nothing, reading this made me feel sad that men perceive women as being money-chasers.
>so I wouldn't have to rely on her if I needed money (which would be horrible)
You missed my point. I was saying that for both women and men having a steady source of at least some income helps.