OK /b/, I am currently fucking the hottest girl I've ever gotten with. Really attractive face, nice tits, a little skinny but it just makes for a tighter pussy. Definitely the best looking I've gotten with. She is pretty cool to hang around with, is an absolute freak, and I'm not really spending any kind of money her.
sage this shit
Don't get too attached. Be CAUTIOUS AS FUCK. Serious here. honestly. I wouldn't mess with any girl that has a kid. For more than one reason. But if you want to, fine. I'm just telling you this probably won't be anything but a good fuck for you.
Just be honest with her and ask her what is she expecting out of this relationship, based on her answer then ask yourself whether you're willing to give it to her.
If she only wants sex and you're ok with it then go ahead.
No. You're at an age where you shouldn't need to be dealing with issues like this. You don't have the maturity or financial stability to give her what she needs. No matter what way you look at it, she is carrying extra baggage at a difficult age. She's probably looking for someone who can support her, but at the same time she's still young and isn't ready to give up her party years just yet. In short; she will have issues most other girls her age won't have. You have to be prepared for that if you want to get serious with her.
If you saw this thread in /b/, its simply because it was the first place I thought of with anonymous posting. I remembered this site a little while later and thought I might get some more serious answers here.
Talk it over with her. The worse that could happen is that you end up dumping her or she dumping you.
You just have to make your position clear.
As you get older you will start meeting women with kids. There's a lot of it these days and it goes with being single.
I'd be upset with >>1's post, but being 19yo shallowness should be expected.
You are just not sufficient for her. It depends on how you feel, but believe you might have to even go against your feelings.
leave her after kid-related-shit starts to happen, as for now, enjoy your lovely fuck friend.
I've done this before (I'm 21), and it turned out nasty. I've also seen two friends do it too, and it's not pretty. Run while you can.
Watch out for women with kids. A regular 19 year old woman can have enough issues on her own. A 2 year old can have more than an enough issues on it's own. With their powers combined, it's a severe force to be reconed with. If you're not serious about this, and you think she might be in any way, RUN! Run fast, run far. (Or, you could go the more mature route and TALK! Talk lots, make yourself clear.)
I look forward to reading the kid's post in this thread in a couple years. He's 12 now at least.