Ok, so, I had a relationship with another guy for 5 months. Yes, I'm a guy. I started crushing on him, and we were best friends, and then I asked him out and we started dating. It was both our first time dating another guy. Usually I date girls, I'm bi. So whatever.
Don't bother. You aren't going to get on good terms. Not only is this long distance(from what it sounds like), But he obviously doesn't want to get back. Forget him, move on. Your next bf/gf will be better.
I hate moving on though. I'm in love, like serious.
The chances of you being in love, while in high school(Sounds like you and him are in it) are slim to none.
You couldn't have made a more fitting title.
That's what I thought when I read your post.
This doesn't sound like a really healthy relationship, even just as friends. Even if you feel really strongly for him, if you're fighting more than you're happy while around him, you might seriously want to consider moving on.
It sounds like he's trying to do that already, so I would really do the same. Also, like >>4 said, don't make yourself available, go out and do things so it shows him you aren't obsessive or too attatched. It might even make him realize that he misses your company, and wants to talk with you more.
I'm going to get over him. Because the people who said it are right, there really is no future there. He would need to get more mature before anything could happen again anyways. I've already been in a relationship before that, but he isn't aware that I was. He still gets jealous, and that was part of why we broke up.