I haven't seen many threads myself that deal with this, and I'm in a predictament myself. There's this really attractive girl at school I want to approach and get to know her. How can I do that without looking like a freak or something...? I'm sure others could use this info too.
I know how to do it, used the trick for a long time with success. Its based on something I once heard from a couple of friends while we were in some little restaurant. Of course, I needed to refine it the first few tries, but I think anyone can quickly get the hang of it once they understand the logic behind it. Let me tell you, I upgraded the trick to a method to make girls (women actually, nowadays :) come over to me, which is a lot more gratifying. I'm sure you understand that it isn't that easy and feels a bit odd in the beginning, but yeah, you'll need a bit of courage. Besides, its basically foolproof so all you need is a bit of faith. Later, you'll look back and simply wonder "why the hell didn't I come up with that myself - its so obvious!" And remember, it all depends on how you do it!
>>2 this post is really long but totally useless. :( i think its a troll
Put on a puppet show with your penis.
Drop your eraser under her desk and then while retrieving it, say something like "oh, white", but loud enough to be heard.
You really don't get it, do you...
Oh well, not everybody has it. Tough luck!
Just try to approach her. That's what people to me to do. Try saying hello or if you somehow know her friends, "use" them to get to talk to her. No matter what you decide to do, just be calm and relaxed(it's hard to do but you have to). Make the conversation natural. A good thing to do is use a situation to your advantage, since you're in school something is bound to happen that you would be able to talk to someone you normally don't know. Don't know if this is any help but ganbatte(good luck).
I wonder if the old deliberately-accidental-bump-into-her-then-help-pick-up-her-books sitcom/movie ploy has a reasonable success rate in real life?
Try it and let us in on the results.
>There's this really attractive girl
already destined for failure.
That could work, but the best chance of it working would be if it wasn't accidental... or you can fake it damn well.
And even then, be prepared to be chewed out because she's a strong woman thats proud to be the bitch from hell.
If you make it look completely natural, then it should work in your favour. But therein lies the problem. The best way to bump into her would be to get your friends to push you into her and make it look like an accident. Though friends can be your most loyal comrades, they can also be your most traitorous. Chances are, your friends will give it away with the knowing smirks plastered across their faces, and the girl will think you are a jackass.
You have no chance. Why? You're nervous and uncool. If you were suave and confident you would have already introduced yourself now. Ask one of her friends out, and when she declines say, oh, I'm only using you as a stepping stone to her. You'll get your face slapped. She'll tell her friend, and she'll be impressed by her cojones.
this is exactl;y what i did and it worked perfectly, the converstaion wne tsmooth from there on out.