I'm dating this chick right now. We met on the internet (I know I know) and we talked for 5 years about, but recently we've been able to meet because of her coming to live here. She's of Japanese descent, she just moved here from Japan. She's absolutely beautiful, cute, very sweet. But I don't know if anybody has ever seen the show As Told by Ginger. If you have, she has huge dental headgear like the main character's black friend. She's great, but her head looks like a satellite dish. And she can't just wear it at night, her teeth are so bad she needs it 24/7. But it's never bothered me. She says she could have them for years possibly, and doesn't even have a time table for getting it off, and I don't care. She's still beautiful with it, maybe even more so. Her speech is cute, since she's good at writing and typing English but sometimes isn't very good at speaking it. Or at least, she speaks it with the usual Japanese inflection that doesn't sound perfect, and the headgear affects her speech too so it's just a bit obscured. Of course her having the headgear came as no surprise to me, she didn't hide it from me before we met in person. Anyway the thing is today we were just hanging out, playing video games and doing what we usually do. Stuff happens, and it ends up that she's pulled my dick out of my jeans and is rubbing it and blushing. I'm just sitting there enjoying it, "in the zone" if you will (I'm a virgin so it was pretty good to me). Then she goes down to give me a blowjob, and I start slightly freaking out. I don't think it's inherently dangerous with the headgear, but I didn't want my dick to get snapped off by something in her mouth, so I resisted, and she noticed. And she got angry. She slapped me and left. I don't really know what to do, I think I overreacted about getting freaked out over it. Do I say "Sorry I wouldn't let you give me a blowjob"? Should I let her give me one to make up for it? Or was I right in resisting?
lol dude she wouldn't have done it if it was going to hurt you
I think when something is going to put its mouth around your dick it's only natural to flinch.
You need some crotchgear
I certainly don't think she was trying to snap my dick off, but she's a virgin too so she hasn't had any experience in the field. I just don't know if it'd be dangerous.
Haha! Thank you >>1. This sort of entertainment is why I visit /love/.
Anyway, you shouldn't "let her give you one" to make up for it. You need to apologize to her, explain why you were nervous, and hint at the fact that you'd be OK with her trying it.
You're probably right. I feel really bad though. She said I was the one person who didn't make her feel self-conscious about it, and I go and do this.
Tell her that you though it would hurt a bit if she did it. But now you feel that if it's her, you can trust her to never harm it.
Just be honest really.
If this isn't copy pasta can you PLEASE post a picture on imageshack or something and put the link here.