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Opinions? Three leads? (12)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-21 18:02 ID:pz6UyK91

Ok, Long story short, I posted a posting on a personals site... A very detailed, frank, honest, and sincere ad, mentioning my interests, etc.... I've gotten three real replies... And I'm not sure how to proceed with them... Hoping I might get some advice from you fellow kind souls here...

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2 Name: OP : 2007-09-21 18:10 ID:pz6UyK91

Anywho, here's my opinions at this point:

  1. Someone fairly career driven, who wasn't really looking for a relationship, just looking to see if it was someone she knew... Didn't seem to jump on mentioning anything we had in common... And when it turned out I'm not someone she knew, kind of got disinterested, taking forever to reply, and just wants to be civil...
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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-21 19:31 ID:YRFXGtw3

  1. You're right, it's not a relationship worth pursuing.
  2. Do not e-mail her there. It will indeed be stalkerish. I doubt she didn't get your e-mail. She might have sounded sincere, but some sort of circumstances have probably changed her mind, which is why she hasn't written back.
  3. This is your best bet. Change your outlook on life and you can be happy with this girl.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-21 22:17 ID:RG8qBpnq

  1. Don't bother. Or rather, if she shows interests again, go for it. but only as far as she shows interests.
  2. Don't you dare email her there. If she doesn't email you back after you emailed her twice, forget her and put yourself more into other chicks.
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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-22 04:06 ID:gJsrt3Ne

I think you should just try and look for other girls.. if you got three so far, surely there'll be more who may be interested.
Btw.. if you don't mind me asking, what personals site are you using?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-22 05:09 ID:qbfREpjq

You really can't tell much from initial responses. Everyone seems nice at first.

  1. "thought I might be someone she knew from the area" Bullshit.
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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-22 12:23 ID:FHi9i/V+

From a girl's perspective, none of these sound like chances worth pursing.

  1. You are half right. She definitely is disinterested and is just being civil to you. The full time classes thing is just an excuse. If she was really interested after the pictures, she would make time.
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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-23 17:37 ID:QKMDYAc4

my impressions:

  1. She's too busy to pursue anything, you'll end up contributing 100% of the effort
  2. She found someone else
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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-23 17:58 ID:F5oZ9UTk


11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-24 05:56 ID:PMcY0d80

99% of posts to 4-ch are people looking for anons to tell there's still hope in a hopeless situation that isn't worth the effort anyway

12 Name: OP : 2007-09-24 13:19 ID:pz6UyK91

Good news, but I put it at the bottom; Comments first, credits where credit's due;

>>several posters - Thanks for the comments, it helped solidify what I was thinking myself, and what my friends were also suggesting, as their reactions were the same;
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