I've had my eyes on a girl lately and shes been flirting with me a lot lately. The other night her and I were drunk and we ended up having some terrible fumbling sex in the grass. Great? not exactly.
I like her a lot but she has a lot of personal problems right now and I'm not sure she really wants this I think she may just be happy to have something new.
First off you should get yourself tested and make sure she's not pregnant before anything else.
You need to let her sort our her personal problems first before anything. She's vulnerable right now, and to be honest, it sounds like you took advantage of that. Back off, be friendly, explain your current position if she asks what's up, but don't do anything relationship-ish until she's back to normal. Otherwise you're both just asking for trouble.
trust me I'm being very cautious and if anything she wants to take advantage of me and I'm the one taking it slow.
Girls with "a lot of personal problems right now" always have personal problems for a long, long, long time, and when they lose them they get some more. Look for a girl who doesn't gave issues. You'll be happy, and although you will have long since forgotten you even read this web page, deep down in the bottoms of your consciousness you will thank me.
We have been getting along better every day and we both make each other happy so for now I'm going to see where this takes us. I haven't seen her unhappy since we first hooked up.
As for her, I think she was just in denial that someone could treat her this nicely but she says now that she has very strong feelings for me. I'm not rushing into a big commitment yet but we were close friends and so far being romantic with her is only making things better.