I love my boyfriend alot but I know he is happy but I want to make him even more happy. I need tips or ideas or something. Not just sexual tricks but dating ideas and lovely dovely tips.
Blowjobs... no seriously, one a day.
If you aren't in a sexual relationship. Just do things for him that he likes. If he likes a home cooked meal, cook it for him. If he sees admires something at the mall, and you have the cash, get it for him. If he is gonna be out when his favorite show is running, record it for him(Tivo!)
> Not just sexual tricks but dating ideas and lovely dovely tips.
You are dating a man, right?
Just serve him in general. You know what he likes, you get to know those things. Learn his routines and work with him, so he can have it more comfortable.
It's mostly about the small everyday things in life, when this goes smoothly you become more at ease and satisfied. Special occations are ofcourse nice but more like icing on the cake.
3 routes to a man's heart:
This. This this this. Though the daily blowjobs are unnecessary, at least for me :p
I started out going "WTF, guys don't all have to want more blowjobs", and then after a little self-reflection I realise that I really do want more myself, and thus would be a hypocrit to say anything of the sort here.
I dream of walking into my home and getting pounced on by my dream girl, just knowing she misses me would bring my spirits up after a long hard day at work...
is it really. i don't like the focus on "serving" really. blowjobs and affection are keys, but so is giving him time to himself.
easy answer sex, anything, everything goes on sex rule, if he not like that, that a man with gay problem or your not good looking lol
Unless he's religious or highly spiritual, nothing wrong with that though.
Besides sex, there are many things to do to please a man. I please my boyfriend and keep him happy with cooking him dinner as much as I can. That seems to make him the most happy but his pleasure is very important to me so I like to do more than just that. Cooking for a man is so basic, it is something all women should just do anyway.
You can't be real. That post has to be a troll.
That answer is too perfect. TOO perfect. It's unbelievable. You kept yourself out of the spotlight in the post and kept your boyfriend the main subject. You didn't go beyond the subject about how to please the man... you... you can't be a real girl...
>>15 Thats how my boyfriend and I live. I was raised in a very old-fashioned environment with the belief that the man that takes care of you or the "breadwinner" is deserving of the most respect. I don't know how anyone can argue that. If your woman works her tail off for you and makes all the money, puts a roof over your head and does all of the traditionally male duties would you not respect her and do your part?
Damn your boyfriend is one lucky man. You are right though. The breadwinner is indead deserving of respect. Male or Female, But I grew up rather old fashion myself.
>>13 is a man, discussing his fantasies. Move along.
It could be, We just don't care. Unless proven otherwise, I'll believe her. Not like I'm gonna go meet with her or anything.
> How To Make A Man Happy
Come naked, bring beer.
"Sure I'll do that"
I can't say I'm nearly as perfect of a girlfriend as >>13, seeing as I can't cook or clean very well, but I do little things for him when I can. One of our favorite things to do is shower together, talk about our day, and wash each other. Massages in the shower are also nice. We basically do the same thing in bed after sex, except the conversation is more philosophical. What we get the most out of these activities is that we know that we are giving and receiving all of each others' attention. Physically (washing and massaging) and intellectually (conversation) we are connecting in a way that is separate from sex.
He is pretty dead on in his fantasies, which is proven by the positive response from other guys. So any girl wanting to please her BF should pay attention, wether it's a guy expressing fantasies or a girl speaking from experience.
>>23 what the hell is with you, this is 2007, you are clearly downgrading women, if you think that women and men are suited for the different roles in society you are stupid. The only thing that makes a man and a woman different is pregnant, women can do anything a men can, when it comes to work wise, this also goes for men to, who sometimes not realise it, but can raise a kid just as good as the woman even better in some circumstance or depending on the person, whether the kid female or male,
Men and women are different.
Men and women have had different roles in society for a million years, longer if you count pre-human ancestors.
Things don't change that easily.
Haha, well I could go further in my arguments but this issue is irreversibly lost to my efforts of reason, or anyone elses for that matter.
So, I am not even going to bother trying to defend that I am actually a girl. It doesn't matter because I think I'm right in what I say and that is what is important. I would also like to agree with >>23
Morals in the United States and other western countries started to decay when feminism started becoming extreme. It goes against the natural way of things. Men have always had their roles as women had theirs. It is not a societal thing, it is a natural thing. There is always a masculine and a feminine, a dominant and a submissive in most balanced relationships. Look at homosexuality. Although they are of the same gender one is always the submissive or more feminine one.
>>25 first of all this is not your room retard, shut the fuck up. Don't talk your just stupid kid,
>>26 you are using science as a way of defending argument, but I agree with you that when it comes to the body, men and women are different, and I realise that men are supposed to be stronger than women, but this isn't 100% true because I know that some women are stronger then men, anyway i am not talking about science and I'm talking about the social role that women and men play.
>>25 first of all this is not your room retard, shut the fuck up.
Don't talk your just stupid kid,
>>26 you are using science as a way of defending argument, but I agree with you that when it comes to the body, men and women are different, and I realise that men are supposed to be stronger than women, but this isn't 100% true because I know that some women are stronger then men, anyway are not talking about science and I'm talking about the social role that women and men play.
sorry for the 2
Thank you for saying that! I've been here trying to word my thoughts on this, and that's pretty much come close.
It may have been the norm in the old days for women to be inside tending to the house and kids, but it doesn't mean that's the right way. Times change.
Women and men have different abilities, and sometimes open discrimination is justified. I'm not happy that my auto insurance rates are through the roof just because I'm a young male, but that's the way it is. Thankfully, I have recourse to prove responsibility and lower my bills.
Don't get in his way too much.[Let him play videogames, go out with the guys, or watch football] Cook for him. Fuck him. Shut up and Listen to their problems stories etc. Be obidient but not TOO obidient. Don't submit to him so easily. You have to resist a little. Just and adequate amount of sex.Make him jealous sometimes. Communication is a huge thing. Don't keep him n a short leash. Just try and get a long and don't be so damn happy all the time. Trust me, it pisses people off in general. Not only guys.