This is all just a game. You fuck her, you win. You don't fuck her, you lose. There's no trust or loyalty in any of this. All people are concerned about is getting themselves off. As long as they are satisfied in the pants, everything is a-o-fucking-kay. Everything is fucking fine. It doesn't matter how many times you've stood by her, it doesn't matter how long you've been good to her, the only thing that matters is physical attraction. She will leave you in two seconds flat for another person who she thinks is "hot." Everything you do doesn't amount to shit. Being nice doesn't amount to shit. What matters is how well you are able to make her fucking eyes roll back and scream your name. What matters is how well you are able to make things "interesting" by being a complete and total asshole to her. Don't be fooled by women that say they want a nice guy, they don't. I hate being an asshole. I hate being a dick always asking for sex. But you know what? I have to be, otherwise they will proceed to walk all over you.
Yeah there might be some truth in there dawg.
That's perfectly fine, being bitter here... Many of us are, and though we do come to our better senses later, it's good to let loose some of that rage, once in a while...
I gather someone betrayed you, and while you were proper, courtly and patient with them, they found someone else who was a jerk, and obviously got physical with them as well, while you played the gentleman and got walked over...
I'm somewhat of a nice guy when it comes to dealing with women, I know that nice guys finish last. But to be honest I don't care if it means I'll never get a girlfriend then that's fine with me. I just can't find it in my heart to act like a jerk just to get some pussy.
In my case, it's not even the "pussy" that I'm trying to get, it's a real, loving, relationship... Nice guys can't even seem to get that...
>>5 I agree with you, acting like a jerk doesn't help,
They are alot of beautiful women in this world, who like nice guys like us, yes some of us will and already have bad experiences because we choose the wrong type of girl.
I still believe in love. I believe in love for family, friends, and for the people of the world.
It's not about being a jerk that attracts a girl; it's about showing that you're strong enough to stand up for yourself and not get walked all over. If you can't stand up for yourself to keep yourself happy, then what chance do you have of making them happy? That's the way I think it works.
waaaaaai, you guys (° Д °)
I know where the "Nice guys never finish last" thing comes from.
I suppose if you're butt-ugly, you don't really have a choice of choosing to be a nice guy or not. If you're nice, girls will tolerate you, and put you in the friend boat. If you're not, well, say hello to hikki life.
If it were just that it would be bizarre, because there is no direct correspondence between attractiveness and ability to provide security.
why do we put ourself down? we are just as good as these Assholes/egotistical/jackass, just cuz we are not confident, have a ego, to be trueful we are better then these asshole, the only thing we need is confidences.
I think people are misunderstanding. I HAVE confidence. That's not the problem. The problem is when you actually try to treat a girl right and in response they feel a need to take advantage of that. I'm just going to take a break from the dating game for awhile. It's pissing me off.
It sounds like you "nice guys" are trying to get with the wrong kind of girl. Girls that want relationships aren't the kind of girls that just want a good fuck. Try finding girls who don't put out on the third date...
Alright, so where to find this hypothetical girl you're talking about?
>Try looking for someone who's mature and slightly intelligent.
ahaha, good one. It's not like you can see "maturity" and "intelligence" just by physically looking at girls, you have to get to know each one to tell that.
Confidence => projects secure person
Attractive men => get their confidence from their looks
Oh man, glad you said it.You can't treat a woman like shes your master,gotta treat her like your equal. or rather, just like you treat most other people. because if you go out of your way too much to do things for them,they take advantage and lose respect for you.
Try the other way buddy. Fuck men, they suck. All they want is pussy. I want a man who cares about me, the way I care about him. Yeah sure, you get the pleasure from a fuck buddy, but a fuck doesn't remember your birthday, your favourite colour, or looks after you when your sick. A fuck doesn't say "I love you" truthfully.
Yeah, you have to get to know a girl to know whether or not she's worthwhile... Same goes for guys... That part's obvious. You shouldn't get hurt by a relationship unless you actually KNOW the other person, though. Or are you the type who falls in love at first glance? That kind of person will always be hurt, because you can never know someone's personality and intentions at first glance.
I meant to put "18" there for my name... Sorry... ^_^;;
Then aren't we both on the same boat? The assholes give us males the bad reputation that stains us all.
Never thought about it quite in that way... thanks for the tip!
15!!! I'm 15!!!! I need to stop smoking crack and calling myself other numbers!!! ORZ
Pretty much. But it made a point didn't it? Both sides get burned from the fuck faces. You just have to pick yourself up again and try to find the right one.
someone you liked got banged by a jock, huh? Ouch. I've been there before.
>I'm trying to get, it's a real, loving, relationship... Nice guys can't even seem to get that...
Nice guy here. Engaged with a wonderful cute girl who's very devoted. Been with her for three years, first girl I've seriously dated and I'm the second one she's ever dated. Stop trying to date shallow trendwhores and start dating chicks who tickle your mind as well as your boner.