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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-06 11:53 ID:8C0RfRw1

I suppose if you're butt-ugly, you don't really have a choice of choosing to be a nice guy or not. If you're nice, girls will tolerate you, and put you in the friend boat. If you're not, well, say hello to hikki life.

Also, there's a difference between personality, and just being plain old nice. The "nice guys" that type these whinge posts are often the ones who expect to get sex/affection by just simply being nice to a girl. Anyone can be nice. What a girl wants is personality. Personality in the sense that one is sure of who they are, and possesses self confidence. Which is what most self titled "nice guys" lack.

Assholes/egotistical/jerk-ass guys often have the two above things.

  1. Attractive/Slightly better than average looks: Often leads to big ego.
  2. Their self confidence/ego attracts girls: Same old argument, natural attraction to a male who can provide her with security.