hey everyone. i just wanted to know if im not the only one who is sick of playing womens little games of love. i just cant ever seem to win.. no matter what i do, the chicks i like end up dating someone else (usually some macho jock fuckwit football player). hell, i even got dumped for one of my best mates who had no interest in the girl whatsoever. its not like im bad looking or anything either. ive even had girls ask my why i dont have a girlfriend and all i could say was "you tell me" cos i honestly have no idea.
Chicks did the "I don't give a fuck what you think" Attitude. Sometimes, you just gotta let them know that you have other options.
>>1 I think you have good luck sir. You wouldn't want to be with those kind of girls.
You'll find a better girl soon enough. If you're still in Highschool, don't worry too much. The world is a lot different once secondary school is done.
You shouldn't be playing a part in women's little games. If a woman is trying to get you to jump through her hoops and you do it everytime she is going to see you as just "a nice guy" who can't stand up for himself and that's not an attractive quality.
first year college = high school
Everyone is still stuck in their high school mentality mode and aren't mature really.
If you're losing to their games, it means you're too easy.
Be a player, don't get played. You don't have to drink, smoke, or break the law, just be 9 parts confident and 1 part cocky. Make THEM please YOU. Not the other way around.
Hey man, girls don't know what we want. We're all just dumb and young. Don't worry, we get better with age.
Don't give them everything, problem solved. I'm a recovering simp. first girlfriend, I simped hard... second one is slightly simped.. and hopefully my third I'll never bend over backwards for a girl again. Next time, they will be bending for me :)
Alright, then. I guess I'm doomed to be dating my hand for a long time, eh?
Don't worry about it. Just talk to alot of girls and be interested in alot of girls. Don't do too much for a girl unless she does the same amount for you. Have her work to get you instead of the other way around. And so on.
ah... I get it. I am interested in a bunch, and I do talk to them. I try not to annoy them. I don't have to be a dick, then? whew!
Well, you don't have to be a dick... kinda. in this day and age, you are seen as a dick if you do anything... ANYTHING a girl could possibly disagree with you with.
but you do have to censor yourself just because you are trying to get a girl. Even if she may hate you for it, always let your true self show. If a girl doesn't like it, too bad for her and move on to another one. plenty of girls out there. that will like you view on things.
It's ok to be nice, just not too nice and accomodating, Because if you are that, you'll be seen as a dependable friend or a doormat. And they will use you.
heh, ive been in that position before. the dependable friend who she could tell anything to. the only reason i stuck around to put up with her shit was cos there was a slight possibility that i could get some sex off her but it never happened. as soon as all her bullshit problems were sorted i was tossed away like nothing, like she had never met me. now i dont even talk to the bitch anymore. infact i bumped into her a couple of weeks ago at an atm machine and she pretended to not see me, despite the fact that i made it quite clear that i was there by letting out a friendly "hello". the bitch didnt respond, took her money and walked off.
just fuck them good