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friends for the rest of my life? (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-26 14:35 ID:3E58I/fd

theres a girl that i'm in love with that i know her for 2 years. shes a really really shy type of girl who isnt use to being around with guys. since last year she she rejected me once but she really cares about me for some reason and this year we're more close then before. last year i looked more fat and dorky looking but this year i've lost weight and styled up my hair and stuff and i noticed that when we do go out (although its really rare since she hardly goes out with guys) like i've seen her secretly looking at me quite alot. i've tried getting over her when i got rejected, even tried to date other girls but none of them are as good as her, she really understands me out of everyone and knows most things about me. she can tell if i'm different such as if i'm depressed and that i'm hiding it, and i really never had this feeling for any girl, shes the most special from all the girls i've met.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-26 20:25 ID:YPA8fPPG

It seems the answear depends partly on you, and what you do,...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-27 05:37 ID:V5R5dtDH

ask her out- if she agrees then yay.

if not- it's time to move on as she's using you for emotional support and the moment she no longer needs you, you guys will drift apart. she's probably not a horrible person that will throw you aside but the friendship is based on your need for her love and her need for a close friend to support her. If she can find someone to be close with that she doesn't have to worry about accidentally leading on, she'll end up closer to that person. and from then on- slowly but surely, she'll just be more and more distant without even noticing what she's doing.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-27 06:22 ID:Z7FXhkXo

Hay OP how long did you two wait before talking and becoming friends again? I just want to know because it's to try and save a friend ship with the only girl I know. Please help me.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-27 12:33 ID:3E58I/fd

>>4 i waited for about a month or two before we started talking again, we slowly started our friendship and pretend that the fight never happened. even though i did kinda gave her a hard time so i thought i'll give her some time to chill.

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