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i dont know what to do (16)


1 Name: Some Guy : 2007-10-29 12:32 ID:QjREbn1m

here's my problem
today is our one year anniversary, of my girlfriend and I. We're crazy in love, i really didnt know it even existed to feel like this. we really love each other alot, see each other 24/7 or almost, always have fun, make love about 7 or 8 times a day (no exageration) and there's just this constant feeling of honesty and trust. i thought i had really found my soulmate.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 12:38 ID:ah/U3Gve

She's not perfect, she cheated on you. If she did it once, she'll do it again. How do you know she cheated on you with only one guy? How do you know she hasn't done ANYTHING behind your back these 3 months? Why did she cheat in the first place?

3 Name: Some Guy : 2007-10-29 12:45 ID:QjREbn1m

i'm not sure she'll do it again ... she was really sad and regrets it deeply. she deleted all her pictures, all her contacts etc. that linked her to that foreign country. i know she hasnt done anything behind my back these last 3 months because she was with me most of the time. she calls me three or four times a day and wants to see me more than i want to see her. she's really constantly behind me. She cheated on me with two guys when she was gone, i told you. she says it's because since i'm her first boyfriend, first time and first love she was scared to get involved to quickly, she didnt feel free anymore. She says she guesses the reason why she cheated on me was to prove to herself she wasnt too bound and was still able to do what she wanted. Also, she was both times really drunk (i know it doesnt excuse anything, but still). Now that she has experienced it with other people (thank god the two guys arent as good as me in bed) she says she knows i'm the love of her life for sure. She said that if she had older she would have asked me to marry her. she seems sincere. am i being stupid? should i waste love like this? i dont know anymore...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 12:53 ID:f0XWQ6np

>>1

Don't leave her.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 13:29 ID:fGJd29Vz

People stray, it's the biological urge to spread their dna, and "horny right now" doesn't help a volitile stiuation.

Having said that, only the ones with a reason to stray in the first place do it. whether it's because they are lonely, or don't love their partner enough to "stay true", doesn't matter, it's all from their perspective and how they percieve what they are doing.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 13:55 ID:1d2hWcxS

Your gf sounds like my ex. Loads of bullshit. Find someone better who can be faithful. You are not in love. You are in lust.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 17:10 ID:gQaEcqlH

She was in a foreign country for 5 months, of course she's going to feel tempted. This isn't the same kind of cheating as if she slept with people while in your home country and actively seeing you. I'd say give her a chance, but if she slips up now she's back home you should dump her.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-30 03:48 ID:/Vgr7yf7

>>1

Leave her.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-30 10:53 ID:0wTv9R3M

Honestly, I'd leave her. I have a zero-cheat policy with women though. But it's up to you.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-30 16:12 ID:Al5xCBfg

>>she's so perfect

If she was so perfect would she have cheated on you?

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-01 05:22 ID:/Vgr7yf7

Sleep with a couple other girls and see how she feels.

If she forgives you, it's true love and you guys can move on with your relationship!

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-01 14:16 ID:14MoG14L

hey, the only way to even it out would be for you to sleep with other girls, but then your relationship would just decend into chaos. can you really sleep with someone else, and then face your girlfriend and tell her you still love her as much as before?

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-01 22:53 ID:JEvvpKSQ

fool me once, shame on you.
fool me twice, shame on me.

Take that as you will, but I'd never stand for being a cuckold.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-02 03:05 ID:LhqXWekK

fucking dump her, seriously. she cheated on you with 2 guys. fucking fail.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-02 08:20 ID:/yAKQCP4

lol, "100% faithful"

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-02 12:14 ID:wSiTtWZF

>>12 was like...

> can you really sleep with someone else, and then face your girlfriend and tell her you still love her as much as before?
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