My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with one of my (former) friends, I just started dating her best friend, ULTIMATE FUCKING REVENGE.
Aside from this satisfaction I actually want the relationship to last because she gives me a boner and has a very cute/attractive disposition. She's got charisma.
Why do you want her to change?
Accept people as they are or don't accept them at all.
I don't want her to change, I want to be able to get to know her.
FUCK, you are a huge pussy, never posting here again faggot.
find out what her hobbies and interests are. Shy people usually don't want to talk about things that they are afraid they will look foolish in, so make sure you talk about something you KNOW she has much more experience and emphasis that you don't know jack shit about it
lol, i dont think you under stand what constitutes a real loving relationship. its not just about fucking. if you are only going out with her to piss someone else off then u are a sad boy. shes too good for you. no wonder ur relationships only last a month.
She is probably just being wary of you. I'm guessing that you being boisterous and outspoken, would cause her to tread carefully in this relationship and retreat behind a wall until she is sure of where she stands with you. She is worried about what you will think of her when she reveals her true self to you, and does not want to get hurt because of it.
If you really are interested in getting to know her then ask questions instead of talking about yourself as I assume you do.
If she's as shy as he says, then his problem is getting her to answer questions when he asks them.
I suppose I use to be like that girl. When I was in high school, dealing with this girl I really really liked, even when we were with each other, I could barely speak a few words. (I had problems even sitting at the cafeteria table with ANY girl).