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Im distancing myself from the ones I love (17)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-19 22:32 ID:y2fmLIav

I've been wondering what's wrong with me.

Two days ago I met someone who I really really liked.
She was fun, cute, and almost too good to be true.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 03:48 ID:3kCJ0N69

>>7

> If you've never loved at all, you don't know what you're missing.
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9 Name: Kurono : 2007-11-22 05:22 ID:2CHJSyZx

I like how >>8 more or less figured where I was going with it. >>7, I wasn't talking about being asexual and never wanting to love. I was referring to those who want to love and choose not to because they may be rejected or are paranoid or whatever. Thank you >>8 for arguing my point.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 14:40 ID:TQ7r6AU+

>>8

>>If you've never loved at all, you don't know what you're missing.
>You mean the human experience?
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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 15:41 ID:mDNa0MW4

You get hurt very badly when you love and then lose. However, you know what love really is and you can actively seek out further lovers - so it's not all bad.

If you don't love then you yeah you don't feel so hurt because you don't know what losing love is like, but you also don't get the highs of love which you can chase.

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 16:16 ID:Heaven

>>6

>>I mean, if she didn't care about you and is just using you, why the heck would she make such an effort to keep in contact?
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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 20:28 ID:/QmaZimM

Just on the whole "better to have loved than lost" thing...

My take is that the one who has had love knows that they are capable of being loved, and they can believe "if it has happened once, it can happen again." Even if they had the perfect relationship and then lost it and are sent into crushing despair or whatever, they still have this small hope.

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 21:37 ID:TQ7r6AU+

>>13

>>The one who has never loved does not have this reassurance, and is left to believe that they are ugly/mean/completely useless.
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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-23 20:26 ID:Heaven

Man is a social animal.

>>14 is a Panda.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-26 19:49 ID:Heaven

>>15

Go back to bed, Aristotle.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-27 08:16 ID:Jb5l7jSd

porcupine's dilemma ITT