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Confusion in Relationship Definition (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-23 08:09 ID:yIpgVZXY

Perhaps not a very good/descriptive title, but hey... turkey coma. Don't expect me to be eloquent right now. XD

Anywho, I'm confused about my relationship with my best friend/wife/secret lover/??? .

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-23 09:14 ID:WtwI2xp4

Well,... She seems to be of the undecided type, which has a hard time to figure out what she wants.

But more importantly, it looks like she is unhappy by the lack of challenge from your part. It seems that you are being too submissive to her, and that frustrates her, probably because she gets the feeling that she's the only one calling the shots. For instance, when you did the beach thing, she seemed quite positive.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-23 12:33 ID:wwo8pAjc

>Control her better when she has bitchy moods, take more decisions, challenge her more.

Yes, take special caution with these types of situation, women loooove to be bitchy just to initiate conflict with possible "mating partners". Its in their nature to challenge men to see if they are worthy.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-24 11:04 ID:varg3pZ7

Women like playing games with men. Right now you are a plaything. Stop taking crap from this girl. Be a man and tell her how you feel - if the answer is anything but her pulling down your pants and jumping on you, stop talking to her. Ignore her. If she really wants you, she'll come back to you without any poking or prodding.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-26 22:31 ID:ztuqXMVz

I love manipulating and using guys. so fun

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-26 23:13 ID:gJYBT2gk

I love manipulating and using girls. so fun

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-26 23:21 ID:SXdOJy39

You deserve a real explanation of some sort from her. If she can't provide you with one then quit playing these games and get out of there.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 03:21 ID:9dw6r6Pz

she's a psycho. run fast.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 12:38 ID:MIEApaXF

She is practically screaming to you to man up. So man UP, whether it is in your relationship or your daily life routine, your accomplishments and so on. They all matter in a relationship.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 17:51 ID:2I/CTEhY

>>5 and >>6 would make a horrifyingly ridiculous pair.

But yeah, OP, looks like you're having some time. Luckily, the rest of the thread seems to know what they're talking about. Since you're a bit submissive, it might be hard to take a more aggressive stance. Just take it a bit at a time, or all at once, I guess it's all up to you. Up to you. Up to you. Echo, echo, echo.

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