Lately, for some reason, an ex of mine seems to have taken a big interest in me.. she is constantly IMing me and calling me, but I never answer her calls. From what she is hinting, it seems that she wants to get back together with me, but I'm not so sure I would want to get back with her. To be honest, it is more of what others would think than what I think of her.
1) If you deem safe and you have the desire to, get back with her.
2) If you dont deem safe and/or you have no desire, either:
B) Tell her to GTFO
My opinion hinges on how the relationship first ended.
She was being a bitch about everything (having everything her way, etc.) and I wasn't going to take it
In that case, I'd say go for it since she wants you more than you want her.
Disagree. If she hasn't been trying to get back with you and suddenly now she's trying to get back with you, then she is probably just trying to use you as an emotional buffer. You're the guy she can fall back on because it hasn't worked with other guys.
I never studies probabilistics, but, as far as I can see, she even could want to share an inheritance she received from her granny with you. The oly point is that you'll never find if you dont ask her. Coarse you don't have to ask "what's up, you F***ing b**ch?". Maybe you can just ask, as polite as you can, "Why are you interested in talking to me? I would prefer you say it plainly and I will reject any 'becasue I was aware I need you' type answer", or more simply "why you should want to see me?".
Yeah, I've decided that I will go along with her for the tits, then </quit>
How does that sound?
does it matter what color her hair is as long as she is decent looking, and has tits and vagoo?
Don't do it. If she was a bitch to you in the first place, what's going to stop her from being a bitch to you again if you get back together. I've been in the same situation, dating someone who was a complete bitch until I had enough and dumped her, only to get back with her again a week later against the advice of my friends.