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Bookstore girl (17)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-10 22:36 ID:v0c609Ez

New girl on my mind. I met her in a bookstore 2 weeks ago and we hit it off pretty well. I got her number. I called her 4 days later to hang out at the mall, but she said she had homework to do. I try again about a week later, inviting her to a coffee house type of event. (cause she mentioned she likes those) and she texts me back with the homework excuse. What now? How many tries should I make before I start looking creepy?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-10 22:58 ID:eyjv8OSV

Who cares about creepy? Keep doing it until she tells you to fuck off, or until you feel stupid yourself. Being interested isn't creepy, persistance isn't creepy.

However, if you can't take a hint, just saying 'I has homework so I can't', two times, without adding something like '...but I'm free on (day) if you wanna do something then...', probably means she isn't very interested.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-10 23:30 ID:8rllz/jB


Offer her a third meeting, and if she has yet another excuse, just ask here to suggest a suitable time. If you don't hear from her anymore, the case is settled.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 01:07 ID:Jurv2L+p

give up. sorry to say, she is just saying homework as an excuse. if she really wanted to see you, she would be like "i have homework that night, but if you are free..." don't sweat it, if you get a girls number at the book store you are in good shape.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 01:32 ID:gVMtlmrc

What about those of us that are 24 and older that don't get phone numbers? What short of shape are we in?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 02:27 ID:O//jyApk

Hey Hotaru, I got this girl's number, called her and she's frequently unavailable, what should I do?

Quit calling, and move on.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 02:28 ID:eyjv8OSV

I'm one of those guys, and I'm in excellent shape, save one thing;
I take no initiative whatsoever, and I mostly ignore to follow up on any advances made on me.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 02:30 ID:O//jyApk


Not the best shape, but not dead yet.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 20:21 ID:7oAUiA3Q

Did you consider that she might actually be swamped in homework? Try to arrange a get-together a 5-7 days in advance, so that she has time to clear her homework schedule for those days.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 22:52 ID:f8qWSS6h

I agree with >>9

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-12 02:37 ID:JIedGIKZ

jesus christ, what kind of conversation are you having?

> mall?
> no, homework
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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-13 02:24 ID:Heaven

or hexadecimal.

73 65 78 3F
6E 6F 2C 20 49 20 68 61 76 65 20 61 20 68 65 61 64 61 63 68 65

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13 Name: Uabaka : 2007-12-13 05:13 ID:hGBv9NVv

Dude, where is your you even have to ask? MOVE ON, lol homework..haha that's like saying "i have a headache"..:s

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-14 02:56 ID:FQPNWmN8


For the mall, I managed to have a hold a 5 minute conversation with her beforehand. Then I mentioned that I was going to the mall and asked if she could come, which she couldn't, of course.

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-14 04:17 ID:UvM0QmMe

Yea, it's better that way, Keep her on the sideline and if she wants to play ball, play ball, otherwise, try to find and deal with you in court players.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-16 18:26 ID:ezZp7XPt



17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-17 01:21 ID:Heaven

Funnily enough >>12 used the headache line too.