Would you insist on spending New Year's Eve with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
How would you react if they wanted to spend if with a group of their friends on a girls/boys night out instead of with you?
I'd be pretty pissed. It definitely is significant, it's a widely recognized holiday.
It's questionable why she doesn't just bring you along.
Although if you've only been seeing each other for two weeks (not quite clear on what you've said here), I'd say it's nothing to get upset about.
@ OP: Do you know any of the friends she's meeting? They could be useful sources of information.
AND, as long as we're on the subject of New Years...
I wouldn't wanna join in her girls night out anyway. If she really chooses to go with her friends I'd just chill out with some of my guy buddies.
my boyfren who i have been seeing for 2 year decided to go to another country to spend new years with his friend and partner. and im here alone..i was pretty sad but he thought that i didnt think new years is a big deal...
the thing is, we didnt spend new years last year together as well as he wanted to be back home with his family...