I have a few questions and I was wondering if I could get any answers here, since I didn't know where else to post this.
I recently got to know this girl, and we were friends for quite awhile. It's clear that she has something for me, cause she's been throwing hints at me for 'it'. Now I dont have a problem about giving it to her, but the thing is, she's not really pure. She had a relationship with a guy before and she was abit of a lesbian. My question is :
Yeah, you sound like a bit of a wuss. Worst, you sound uneducated about sexual health.
1) STD's are transmitted through sexual contact (although there are a few you can be born with, such as herpes) Generally speaking, if someone's partners were clean, that person will be clean.
Hey I'm not OP but I also have a question on this topic...
I've been seeing this girl time to time and if we do get sexual I don't know if I should ask about her sexual health? If I ask if she has STDs or HIV I feel more like I'm gonna get slapped in the face than getting an answer.
better safe than sorry, if you think you are going to have any form of sex, wrap that shit up.
and never be afraid to ask about her sexual history, shoot ask her if she ever got tested. if you know things are going to reach that level then dont risk it. better pissing her off than getting a STD.
If she would slap you for asking, you don't want to be putting your dick in there in the first place. What's more important to you, your health, or not accidentally offending someone? Jeez.
The best way of proceeding is to start by using condoms. If you feel comfortable, and a stable relationship is developping, then you should discuss about giving up usage of the condom with your partner. This implies both of you making an HIV test, to confirm that no one is at risk, and then agree that if one of you is unfaithful in the future, he/she will use condoms,...
don't rush. seriously, if you yourself don't really feel up to it you're just making it less awesome for yourself. and during the sex don't rush. it;s just like masturbation, the longer you take (within reason) the better the outcome.
Firstly.. are you in Asutralia. LOLLL
sorry but thats me and well, here, STDs are extremely prevelant with the minors. :)
"2) Is oral and intercourse still safe at this point, condom or no?"
What percentage of people under 18 is 2000? I'm genuinely curious because this relates to my interests.
>>8 gives shit advice. Having a boyfriend before does not equal being a slut.
well i took it as though shes had sex with MANY people before !!
i mean having a boyfriend.. ANNND GIRLLSSS.
having girls means more guys generally.