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how2 Make someone feel special? (11)

1 Name: inni minni : 2007-12-26 08:41 ID:w3BJB2+L

I just want to show someone that i really do respect their company, when i get it.
I really want them to understand that i care about them ALOT without spending money or telling them how i've typed it.
Are there any "lines" i can pull or gestures to say this to HIM without saying it bluntly "i really care about you"... because i am far to shy to do it that way.

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2 Name: inni minni : 2007-12-26 08:43 ID:w3BJB2+L

He already does alot for me btw.

"because i am far to shy to do it that way"
Sorry that came out wrong, i think it just sounds lame unless your proposinfg.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-26 10:13 ID:Heaven

It's a shame you ruled out sex because what always made me special in my last relationship was when my girly was waiting at the door, and led me straight to the couch for oral.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-26 15:53 ID:aFBoCGcb


>in my last relationship

5 Name: inni minni : 2007-12-30 07:50 ID:w3BJB2+L

thats so funny. XD
good idea though. might keep that in mind for the future. :)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 08:30 ID:5QMXQ2Xf

Well,... It's a good idea to pay attention to what he says, identify things he likes a lot, and do them with him, or give him something that's meaningful for him. People like when they feel understood, and that they realize that other people are thinking about them.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 11:41 ID:Heaven

Don't forget to actually post some CONTENT.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 13:57 ID:sR+bg0FT

Do shit that you are far too shy to normally do and he will get the hint. Ok? If you want to prove something to yourself or others, don't look for an easy way out. Besides, if you blush and get shy for expressing your feelings to him, he will only think it's extra cute.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 18:34 ID:Heaven

> "i really care about you".

Just say it.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-31 02:49 ID:JKDJRTYu

I second this. Really pay attention to what he says, and care about his life. Place high importance on his opinions. Bring up things he talked about earlier days later and he'll know that you were listening and cared.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-31 08:36 ID:juCggTpj

I'm confused about how far along you are in this relationship, getting some mixed signals.
If you aren't far yet, get him to go exploring by you, somewhere near a river, fake like you're going to push him in, grab him, and hold on for just a little longer than you need too. Do it a few times, always quietly, and return to whatever y'all were doing after. That should at least silently convey your longing without forcing anything.