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singles rant thread: ~!~HYAPPATSU~!~ Edition (49)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 05:27 ID:JEc7MgK2

i don't know about you, but we've been far too long without a singles rant thread.

here, i'll get this party started: male, and without a significant other. there is a chance for a significant other, but after all this time of wanting one, i just don't want to take the plunge. it's actually really ironic.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 06:01 ID:JR0SqVJy

Female, and also without a significant other. I have really strong feelings for someone, but he already has a girlfriend he's extremely happy with, so I'm not going to say anything ever to him about it. Not that I would ever have the courage otherwise! orz

3 Name: lazz : 2007-12-30 07:57 ID:6lbfRg7P

umm, Female.
Likes someone, but that changes with the wind.
Have many people attracted to me, though it never lasts.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 15:04 ID:IDWXfyE/

single female. I am always attracted to people with confident personalities, but I am too shy myself to ever get to talk to them.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 16:00 ID:KCwInD/D

single male. keen on someone, but i know its an impossible combination and will never happen, she already has a bf anyway. been single for 2 years now. im sick of meeting boring, slutty, ignorant girls who throw themselves at me. i just want a decent relationship, but it seems the few that feel the same way are already taken.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 17:42 ID:I0HBDlBE

Single Male. 18 Years Old. 18 years without a girlfriend.


7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 22:13 ID:JoZWY1Jf

Male. I had one girlfriend this time last year but she cheated so i dumped her. I pretty much regretted it because I miss having a girlfriend, but I know it wouldn't be a good idea to take her back because I really couldn't trust her. She has a new boyfriend now who I think is a dick. That pisses me off because I feel that she should be single until I find a new girl - like as a punishment. But then I know that's going a bit over the top so I'm less angry about it now. I generally don't speak to her at all.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 22:25 ID:JEc7MgK2

personally, i think playing games i dangerous. you both obviously see something in each other, and i'm pretty sure she knows what you are doing just chooses not to see anything. you have to watch out, since you never know what could go wrong. what if you never act, and just keep playing these games? she might lose interest, or think that;s all you are: a flirt. so try, with caution, to kind of give hints. but, personally, i like just out and saying how you feel. argue your case. she will listen, and at least you got that.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-30 22:26 ID:JEc7MgK2

excuse the errors in that. i didn't proofread.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-31 00:50 ID:JoZWY1Jf

>>7 here

Thanks for the reply. Mostly what I have to say at the moment is in response to

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-31 00:55 ID:JoZWY1Jf

>I asked one of our mutual friends whether he thought she liked me as more than a friend once (unfortunately, or possibly fortunately, when high on E) and he said no and she hadn't said anything. This is a good friend of mine and I'm 99.99% sure he would've said something if he knew the girl liked me more
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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-01 06:50 ID:PyMsYFkh

depressed as usual!


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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-01 21:35 ID:Cng51fmv


Hi me.

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14 Name: KD : 2008-01-05 23:19 ID:3KOxeA11

single female, moving on from a previous love, but not knowing where to look.

15 Name: Sorry, psp posts suck : 2008-01-09 07:18 ID:Q8H0/LmC

Male; I'm interested in several girls, but I have trouble initiating any relationships because I've spent my whole life trying to avoid relationships. Summary of options:
1- Currently has a bf, but she and I have been very close despite that. No matter what I can't seem to resist her. She's breaking up with him soon.

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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-09 07:29 ID:F1rOQqcV

single male, only one real long-term relationship, too many short-term and one-night stands. sometimes feels unlovable. so usually will take the first thing that comes, but neither of us stay for long. probably sadder than the guy that cant get laid.
cant find anyone who would want to be with me for any real amount of time :(

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17 Name: Sorry, psp posts suck : 2008-01-09 07:30 ID:Q8H0/LmC

(cont'd) is very religious; I am very not. this hasn't caused a problem yet as she is very accepting of others views- We have even debated the relative merits of various religions without consequence. I feel a compulsion to be totally honest with her, even if it's about secrets nobody needs to know that will probably lessen her opinion of me. Believer in sex being pointless beyond the purpose of procreation, but I think that is only due to lack of experience.

18 Name: ?? : 2008-01-10 21:26 ID:bn0IVqVa

single male, havent had a "real" relationship, every girl seems taken or out of reach

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-20 07:26 ID:rl859Gok

single female. 18 years old. Female friends and strangers alike tell me i'm pretty, but i have NEVER once in my life been approached by a boy. I'm getting reather lonely, but in the same situation as >>1, i'm a bit afraid to "take the plunge".

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-21 02:20 ID:MMc6+SWy

I know, finding the haystack is sometimes more difficult than finding the needle in it.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-21 18:15 ID:XY8tICbG

Single male, 18. Havent even been kissed yet.

I am not particularly un-attractive, I have had girls have crushes on me in the past but I think I spend too much time in-doors.

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22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-21 20:47 ID:JoZWY1Jf


>I am hoping college will be different
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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-22 11:12 ID:kyqwWa7H

21, male, single, virgin, lonely, shy. ;_;

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-22 17:34 ID:Heaven

Single male, 20. Never had a serious relationship, never cared. Basically, I'm a self absorbed and not particularly emotional kind of person. Don't much care about other peoople. Short, meaningless flings suit me just fine, I prefer not to have anyone in my life too much. Sucks, I guess, but that's how I am.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-24 04:13 ID:1sfmIJ7T

18 year old male virgin. I've met more than a few people. Problem is, I can never drum up the courage to get something started, nor do I have any idea what to say when I am interested in someone.

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-02 06:23 ID:0WQ2KBIq

Female, never had a boyfriend before, and not really caring about relationships... Haven't kissed anyone before, let alone anything else >_>;;

Even if I did like someone, I'm completely introverted, and I can barely talk to my best friend in person without stuttering, let alone confess to anyone...

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27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-02 13:40 ID:I0HBDlBE

Im the exact same as this guy. I hope it all changes at Uni. Closest I ever got was Internet relationships :<

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-03 08:02 ID:0BcyDHaY

>>26 has that guy ever called you before?

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-03 08:30 ID:0TtWu4bq

i'm single now, until today i was engaged. my girlfriend broke up with me because she "found" an imvu profile that she said was mine. for quite a while someone had been stalking me and pretending to be me on the internet, until today i hadn't had any luck finding out who it was. a couple hours after she broke up with me i found out that she made that imvu profile.

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30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-03 09:15 ID:oU/OTbsp


Arrrkkk... what a cow! >w< Sorry...

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-04 01:18 ID:3HuOtQNp


Same, but male.

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32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-05 05:35 ID:JEc7MgK2

I don't know what it is, but lately I've gone from "OMG NEED SOMEONE" to not giving a shit. I've been so preoccupied with life my care has gone dry.

That and there is no one available at all...

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-06 05:50 ID:Ot/f5Wf4

Come my fellow singles. Lets not only swap lonley and bitter stories. We should encourage each other and help to better each other. Huddling in our lil corner of the internet will not bring change. Come on guys!

34 Name: Anonymous : 2008-02-06 06:00 ID:Ot/f5Wf4

Im gonna try and ask this girl at the mall out on a date, this weekend. I might need to drink a little before I go, but damn it! I must do it!

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-06 13:57 ID:u+xb+OJL

Single male here, Just out of a relationship that lasted for 2 months. It had a terrible ending as my relationship usually do. My longest relationship has been for 4 months. I'm 22 now and I suppose I should be mature enough to make things last longer. If you happen to be interested in the story behind my last relationship let me know.

36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-06 14:58 ID:sPt7p0Ho

Of course we are. Please develop.


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37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-06 21:24 ID:woHiQRqX

Single female here. I went out with this guy for eight months, then got we broke up over something stupid, went out again with him for a month two months later, and now I'm back single cause he thinks that dumping me will solve his communication issues.

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38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-07 14:00 ID:u+xb+OJL

>>35 here

This is the story of my 2 month relationship. We have known each other for almost 3 years and used to date while she wasn't in a relationship. During all those 3 years we never had an argument and it was pretty comfortable to be around her. In july her longest relationship ended (a bit more than a year). The all her attention got diverted to me and then we started to spend more time together and gave me the "signs" or at least that's what I thought. We got something serious(?) by september. Then it all started with a date when we accorded to go for dinner. I was coming from home while she from work and we agreed to meet at the spot, I got there first so I got the table for both of us. When she arrived she was with someone, later I learnt she was her ex-girlfriend who she met by chance(?)so she decided to invite her. I was not so concerned and I even found the ex to be a nice person.

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39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-07 14:00 ID:u+xb+OJL

>>38 continued

When I got home I went straight to my bed and I heard my mobile but didn't bother. Next morning I check my messages:

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40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-07 17:46 ID:sPt7p0Ho

Your original post said:

>I'm 22 now and I suppose I should be mature enough to make things last longer.
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41 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-08 17:48 ID:oed6RGvK


Yeah, you need to move on. She's insane.

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-09 08:50 ID:JEc7MgK2

I went to a Rocky Horror Picture Show showing tonight and I am somewhat more into someone i wasn't previously into because... I don't know. Just, the way they were there and being the aisle walker guy. He has become more appealing I guess.

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43 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-09 11:43 ID:JoZWY1Jf

>being the aisle walker guy

What's an aisle walker guy? Like leading his friends to their seats?

44 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-17 09:38 ID:3SipY5j5


45 Name: SpireAtlanta : 2008-02-18 02:12 ID:ttMwmrRp

>>42 Chillax. Date. Things will fall into place if you just let yourself flow with life.

46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-21 01:40 ID:jE750jVT

Single male, reporting for duty!

Mission specs! Age: 23! Status: Never had a gf! Objective: one day I would like all that love-love stuff! Current status: Too busy doing nothing and being afraid to actually look for a gf XD

47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 02:45 ID:ttMwmrRp

>>42 In case you haven't made a move based on this whole "have a different experience to learn" thing yet, my advice is either to set up a date with two people for the immediate future, then take what you know and ask said guy out, or to talk with people who Do know what they're doing, get details, and ask the guy out.

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48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 05:24 ID:Heaven

i am 17 today and have always been alone...
i feel a little better about it than i did a year ago, at least. maybe things can really change? it's not too late, yet...

49 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 12:29 ID:ScoU9GwC

"Always" isn't so long when you've just finished (or started?!*) your growth spurt-- of course it's not too late.

*a friend of mine grew 5 inches after high school, the tard.