i don't know about you, but we've been far too long without a singles rant thread.
here, i'll get this party started: male, and without a significant other. there is a chance for a significant other, but after all this time of wanting one, i just don't want to take the plunge. it's actually really ironic.
Female, and also without a significant other. I have really strong feelings for someone, but he already has a girlfriend he's extremely happy with, so I'm not going to say anything ever to him about it. Not that I would ever have the courage otherwise! orz
Likes someone, but that changes with the wind.
Have many people attracted to me, though it never lasts.
single female. I am always attracted to people with confident personalities, but I am too shy myself to ever get to talk to them.
single male. keen on someone, but i know its an impossible combination and will never happen, she already has a bf anyway. been single for 2 years now. im sick of meeting boring, slutty, ignorant girls who throw themselves at me. i just want a decent relationship, but it seems the few that feel the same way are already taken.
Single Male. 18 Years Old. 18 years without a girlfriend.
Male. I had one girlfriend this time last year but she cheated so i dumped her. I pretty much regretted it because I miss having a girlfriend, but I know it wouldn't be a good idea to take her back because I really couldn't trust her. She has a new boyfriend now who I think is a dick. That pisses me off because I feel that she should be single until I find a new girl - like as a punishment. But then I know that's going a bit over the top so I'm less angry about it now. I generally don't speak to her at all.
personally, i think playing games i dangerous. you both obviously see something in each other, and i'm pretty sure she knows what you are doing just chooses not to see anything. you have to watch out, since you never know what could go wrong. what if you never act, and just keep playing these games? she might lose interest, or think that;s all you are: a flirt. so try, with caution, to kind of give hints. but, personally, i like just out and saying how you feel. argue your case. she will listen, and at least you got that.
excuse the errors in that. i didn't proofread.
Thanks for the reply. Mostly what I have to say at the moment is in response to
>I asked one of our mutual friends whether he thought she liked me as more than a friend once (unfortunately, or possibly fortunately, when high on E) and he said no and she hadn't said anything. This is a good friend of mine and I'm 99.99% sure he would've said something if he knew the girl liked me more
single female, moving on from a previous love, but not knowing where to look.
Male; I'm interested in several girls, but I have trouble initiating any relationships because I've spent my whole life trying to avoid relationships. Summary of options:
1- Currently has a bf, but she and I have been very close despite that. No matter what I can't seem to resist her. She's breaking up with him soon.
single male, only one real long-term relationship, too many short-term and one-night stands. sometimes feels unlovable. so usually will take the first thing that comes, but neither of us stay for long. probably sadder than the guy that cant get laid.
cant find anyone who would want to be with me for any real amount of time :(
(cont'd) is very religious; I am very not. this hasn't caused a problem yet as she is very accepting of others views- We have even debated the relative merits of various religions without consequence. I feel a compulsion to be totally honest with her, even if it's about secrets nobody needs to know that will probably lessen her opinion of me. Believer in sex being pointless beyond the purpose of procreation, but I think that is only due to lack of experience.
single male, havent had a "real" relationship, every girl seems taken or out of reach
single female. 18 years old. Female friends and strangers alike tell me i'm pretty, but i have NEVER once in my life been approached by a boy. I'm getting reather lonely, but in the same situation as >>1, i'm a bit afraid to "take the plunge".
I know, finding the haystack is sometimes more difficult than finding the needle in it.
Single male, 18. Havent even been kissed yet.
I am not particularly un-attractive, I have had girls have crushes on me in the past but I think I spend too much time in-doors.
21, male, single, virgin, lonely, shy. ;_;
Single male, 20. Never had a serious relationship, never cared. Basically, I'm a self absorbed and not particularly emotional kind of person. Don't much care about other peoople. Short, meaningless flings suit me just fine, I prefer not to have anyone in my life too much. Sucks, I guess, but that's how I am.
18 year old male virgin. I've met more than a few people. Problem is, I can never drum up the courage to get something started, nor do I have any idea what to say when I am interested in someone.
Female, never had a boyfriend before, and not really caring about relationships... Haven't kissed anyone before, let alone anything else >_>;;
Even if I did like someone, I'm completely introverted, and I can barely talk to my best friend in person without stuttering, let alone confess to anyone...
Im the exact same as this guy. I hope it all changes at Uni. Closest I ever got was Internet relationships :<
i'm single now, until today i was engaged. my girlfriend broke up with me because she "found" an imvu profile that she said was mine. for quite a while someone had been stalking me and pretending to be me on the internet, until today i hadn't had any luck finding out who it was. a couple hours after she broke up with me i found out that she made that imvu profile.
I don't know what it is, but lately I've gone from "OMG NEED SOMEONE" to not giving a shit. I've been so preoccupied with life my care has gone dry.
That and there is no one available at all...
Come my fellow singles. Lets not only swap lonley and bitter stories. We should encourage each other and help to better each other. Huddling in our lil corner of the internet will not bring change. Come on guys!
Im gonna try and ask this girl at the mall out on a date, this weekend. I might need to drink a little before I go, but damn it! I must do it!
Single male here, Just out of a relationship that lasted for 2 months. It had a terrible ending as my relationship usually do. My longest relationship has been for 4 months. I'm 22 now and I suppose I should be mature enough to make things last longer. If you happen to be interested in the story behind my last relationship let me know.
Single female here. I went out with this guy for eight months, then got we broke up over something stupid, went out again with him for a month two months later, and now I'm back single cause he thinks that dumping me will solve his communication issues.
This is the story of my 2 month relationship. We have known each other for almost 3 years and used to date while she wasn't in a relationship. During all those 3 years we never had an argument and it was pretty comfortable to be around her. In july her longest relationship ended (a bit more than a year). The all her attention got diverted to me and then we started to spend more time together and gave me the "signs" or at least that's what I thought. We got something serious(?) by september. Then it all started with a date when we accorded to go for dinner. I was coming from home while she from work and we agreed to meet at the spot, I got there first so I got the table for both of us. When she arrived she was with someone, later I learnt she was her ex-girlfriend who she met by chance(?)so she decided to invite her. I was not so concerned and I even found the ex to be a nice person.
When I got home I went straight to my bed and I heard my mobile but didn't bother. Next morning I check my messages:
Your original post said:
>I'm 22 now and I suppose I should be mature enough to make things last longer.
I went to a Rocky Horror Picture Show showing tonight and I am somewhat more into someone i wasn't previously into because... I don't know. Just, the way they were there and being the aisle walker guy. He has become more appealing I guess.
>being the aisle walker guy
What's an aisle walker guy? Like leading his friends to their seats?
>>42 Chillax. Date. Things will fall into place if you just let yourself flow with life.
Single male, reporting for duty!
Mission specs! Age: 23! Status: Never had a gf! Objective: one day I would like all that love-love stuff! Current status: Too busy doing nothing and being afraid to actually look for a gf XD
>>42 In case you haven't made a move based on this whole "have a different experience to learn" thing yet, my advice is either to set up a date with two people for the immediate future, then take what you know and ask said guy out, or to talk with people who Do know what they're doing, get details, and ask the guy out.
i am 17 today and have always been alone...
i feel a little better about it than i did a year ago, at least. maybe things can really change? it's not too late, yet...