copied and pasted from 4chan /a/
Hi, /a/. You know those threads that go "What if you wake up as ____" or "What if you encounter ____"? Well, this thread is much like those, only it's more complex and based on a true story. Brace yourself for some serious tl;dr.
tl;dr went to a party, got drunk and kissed/groped a girl that wasn't his gf while his actual gf was at home ill.
Well, my first bit of advice is not to get that drunk when you have a girlfriend. Yeah, alcohol can excuse you of lots of things but if you're in a relationship and you know you get a bit "open" when you drink then you should be a bit careful about how much you drink. You don't have to have every drink during a drinking game; in fact you don't have to take part in a drinking game if you don't want to. If your friends don't take no for an answer then they are being dicks.
You ARE a horrible person. Feel like one. You got drunk, so whatever you did is your fault. No one forced liquor down your throat. Stop acting like you're not responsible for what happened. Fess up to your girlfriend and make sure "K" knows what happened as well. Take the consequences and move on.
tell your girlfriend about what happened. if shes cool with it, whatever. if not, you're out a girlfriend. back to fap box.
simple as that
...yeah. You done fucked up. Best thing to do is to come clean and take all the flak for it. It'll be better than trying to pin the blame on something else or to lie through it.
Amusingly enough, /love/ says to apologize while 4chan (both /a/ and /b/) told me to keep quiet and hope A never finds out.
...which site is a bigger gathering of inexperienced virgins? I need to know which advice to take.
It's not a matter of which site is a bigger gathering of inexperienced virgins, but which site is a bigger gathering of assholes. 4-chers are generally much nicer people, so of course they're going to tell you to 'fess up. It's the right thing to do, you know. If you want to be an asshole, keep quiet.
4chan is a bunch of assholes who want to cause trouble for people. If you keep your mouth shut, and she DOES find out, you'll be in a hell of a lot more trouble than if you were to come right out and admit you did something wrong.
I would keep my damn mouth shut. If you tell her you cheated, you're out of there. If not forever, then for a long, long time. Every single bridge you two built will be burned. It doesn't matter if you tell her now or she finds out a year later. You're going to get dropped. It's the same result either way.
>>5 was me
and at first i was gonna say "dude it was no big deal. just keep it to yourself. nobody needs to know"
then i thought about how i've been cheated on before, and how shitty it felt.
so my answer was going by what i'd want if i was HER. i'd want to know.
I'm an inexperienced non-social virgin, and I would probably say you should fess up if you had actually cheated on her.
But all you did was grope and kiss her while drunk, and you can't even remember doing so yourself. Aren't situations like that common nowadays, and thus not really considered cheating? :p
But if you don't tell her and she finds out after a year or however long, it's going to feel much worse for you when she dumps you because you've had much more time to grow close to each other.
She'll find out in the end, come clean man.
I kissed a male friend of mine and stuff a lot reently, I explained to my girlfriend that it was nothing and stuff and she's learning to trust me again. Slowly, but better that than me lieing.
Dude, you don't even know for sure this actually happened. All you have is the word of people who were also drinking, and who are probably b-tards. Why in the world would you confess to something that you don't even know if it really happened? That would make you a chump.