You're kinda hard, there.
Although I won't say there are none here (but again, I couldn't say that anywhere), I sincerely doubt there are "alot" of rapists here.
You'll probably have some cynical dudes who will say such horrible things, but seriously most of them won't "have the balls" (so to speak) to do anything - hopefully.
And you know, you might even have some of the less agressive guys here. You might have some very, very nice people, kind, and helpful.
And I know that being raped leaves horrible scars, but that doesn't mean you have to become bitter and say that most people are secretly rapists of such things. First, because that twisted point of view will only help ruining your confidence in other human beings - second, because, well, you might hurt people doing this.
Then again, maybe you don't care.