Sorry to hear you say that. But I will reiterate that ultimately you are responsible to see to it that he stops, and do everything in your power to make sure it happens. And if he goes too far, and you have done what you can to protect yourself, then he is undeniably at fault and needs to be prosecuted.
I think what a lot of people say about you here is unfair. But a lot of people here are also just trying to initiate some stupid flame war. Don't get me wrong, that has its place too (4chan's /b/) but I was expecting more intelligent stuff here.
Oh, and the chick that tried to accuse me of rape a year later wasn't saying "Tee hee, no silly." She was saying "Mmm, oh yes, you eat pussy real good." Even more reason to say she's full of shit.
Oh, and the my ex-girlfriend raping me thing would usually happen three or four hours after I tried to initiate sex and she refused, before the alcohol I stayed up drinking until midnight BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO really took effect and knocked me out. This would be about two or three in the morning on a work night.
Still, I'm not exactly sure to call it rape. At first I would refuse but then she wouldn't stop, but eventually I guess I kind of got into it? I don't know. I don't think I could have really stopped her anyway. Besides she'd probably guilt me into having it anyway.
To me, there is true rape and there is true consensual sex, but there is considerable gray area in between. Of course that's just what I think.
I could just be some evil rapist misogynist asshole womanizing bastard.
Or I could be a woman myself.
Or I might just be telling the truth. You would never know.
That's the nice thing about anonymity.