Okay, situation: I really, really, REALLY like this one chick. We're friends, there's an opportunity if I'd move on it. (PS I am pretty bad at that which does not help at all) She seems relatively uninterested in me, and I say that very loosely. She's flirty, but keeps me (and basically every other man alive) at a distance; not because she doesn't like me or anything, but because she acts like she's waiting for someone to sweep her off her feet or something. (I could at least do this, I don't suck that hard.) (fyi she is a disney fan -- disney princess complex theory?)
>We're friends, there's an opportunity if I'd move on it
>She seems relatively uninterested in me
>keeps me (and basically every other man alive) at a distance
Return and post with the story of how you managed to screw up BOTH chances. That will be much more entertaining than this.
OP here, just came back from a very interesting meeting. Well, afterwards it was interesting. Second girl is thinking relationship, still don't know too much on first girl. I forgot to mention that we (myself and girl 1) tease each other often over small things. I'm assuming she's basically run the gamut and is pretty much looking for either a) someone new and exciting that she's not had before or b) the physical embodiment of perfection. She was really hot for one guy but he's been taken for months. Maybe she's waiting for that. I hope not. :|
Talk to girl 1 about girl 2. That'll make her jealous. Girls often rate guys proportionally to the number of how many other girls (close friends of them is a plus) run after him.
Well it's not everything but it raises your "value".
>>5 speaks truth.
the guys i've been really hot for have always had tons of girls chasing after them. wtf is up with that? must be one of our subcinscious girl things.
Settle for number two. It's better to have a girl who likes you than to like a girl you don't have.
Hang with female friends attracts other girls to you. Because as you seem to have a good feeling with females, they assume you are someone "good". Or gay, but that depends on your behaviour.
What >>3 said... embrace the inevitable failure like Tony Romo.
> must be one of our subcinscious girl things.
I know for a fact it is, and I can prove it simply by wearing a wedding band on my finger.
This does not work in reverse.