Ok I have a dilema. I'm in college and the guy I like goes to the same school. About 3 or 4 months ago we both went to a party, and some things happened. We fooled around but didn't go all the way. There have been several other times like this that went on and off for a couple of months. We talked and I told him I loved him, he said he couldn't say the same right now. He hasn't said yes and he hasn't said no. He bad broken up with his girlfriend who lived in California, when this was all going on, I was there the night he did it. It was about a month and a half later, in the middle of December that he said he had a new girlfriend. He said that she reminds him a lot of his old girlfriend, he said that he broke up with his old one because of the distance, but he's sure if he was closer to her that they'd still be together. I personally think he's just trying to have a second chance with a girl that has the same personality as his old girlfriend. It's been about a month since they started going out. He told me the last night we talked that he wanted to have sex with her really badly and that was a month ago. He told me about they're first night out, he said they made out and stuff. I know they've already had sex. Anyway what ended up happening between us is that I got mad and jealous and said that I didn't want to be his friend anymore, he said whatever. I spoke out in anger, cuz I still want to be his friend and possibly more. He and I are only 21. I've haven't talked to him for about a month, and I can't say I "love" him anymore but I still really like him and want to be around him, just not while he's with his current girlfriend. Is there any hope of him ever having feelings for me? Is it possible for us to have a relationship even though all this has happened?
Yes there is always a possibility for practically everything. There's a possibility a 747 will crash into your room tomorrow. Anything can happen. But the chances are rather slim
This just reminds me of all the useless crap feelings have dragged me into over the years... Drama