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having a crush on your teacher/ professor (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 08:01 ID:cx4I9THn

i have a really big crush on my professor. i'm in college, and i am even taking another of his class just so i can see him more. i know this is not going to become anything, but i just can't help how i feel.

i have always considered myself to be a level-headed person, i've never really felt so strongly about anyone in my life, and when my friends would tell me about their boyfriends, i always thought that i would never feel so strongly about someone else. but now i am, and it is making me miserable, because this isn't just a regular crush, but the person i actually like is my teacher, and obviously nothing is gonna happen.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 11:16 ID:WiEXILBR

Guy here, had a crush on a female teacher back when I was in high school (Australian school system, I was 17-18.) We'd flirt with each other, and we always knew when the other one was in the room/hall/whatever. She'd act as shy as a schoolgirl, really cute. I did confess my feelings to her, and she said 'no' when I offered her a gift. I felt good afterwards anyway, at the very least it was a liberating experience. Still, the flirting didn't stop until I graduated and I don't think I've seen her since.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 13:15 ID:5ylDvlUQ

Yeah, inappropriate would be the right word, and unnecessary. Well, you can try to see him after you graduate if you feel so strongly about him. Everyone has patience, I do, especially for love.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 19:21 ID:Heaven

Never had a crush on a teacher, but I did have a really hot professor in college, and I'm giving serious consideration to going back to campus and hitting on her.
It's not sexual harassment if I'm not currently a student, right?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-27 12:39 ID:Heaven

Sexual harassment has nothing to do with your relations to the other person.

6 Name: fartman : 2008-02-07 09:12 ID:lapODw2M

ive had crush on my student. well strictly speaking, it wasnt me, but her. i was a teacher at a cram school, and my student whose age was 16(and i was 28 at that time) liked me.
so dont worry about moral thing. you wont be able to change your feeling anyway, until you become like someone else.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-08 14:22 ID:Hsnm5xjt

I would have suggested lessons outside class and maybe offer extra credit.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-08 14:22 ID:Hsnm5xjt

I would have suggested lessons outside class and maybe offer extra credit.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-09 14:52 ID:SyGyQAOY

Oh man i know how you feel. I'm head over heels for my techer too. I've never felt this way about anyone before. Maybe it's because i don't really get along with people my age. He's 10 years older than me so there's not a HUGE age gap, but the stiff "student/teacher" title is hard to deal with. I think i will tell him my feelings someday, but i'll definitely wait until i graduate. It sucks having to wait, I know. it's like torture, but it's probably the best course of action for people in our kind of situation.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-10 00:40 ID:Gxc2YX0E

Are all teachers perverts??

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 13:28 ID:P3Sn85XV

I'd say to inhibit yourself from developing any more feelings. Don't go to office hours. Walk away. Take interest in people your own age- even if it seems rediculous to you, you must succeed at it.

>>10 They are too smart.