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Dealing with partner's past (6)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 14:43 ID:NV38UPyK

I have been with my girlfriend for about two years now. I'm 20 and she's 18. We've been through a lot, breaking up just to be back with each other. Currently we're just happy being together.

Lately we have been talking a lot about our past experiences. I have discovered that she had been hiding a lot from me. We talked about how way before she met me, she had flings with people she met in a bar. I also discovered that at the age of 14, she had her first kiss inside a bar with a stranger she barely knew (she said she was a bit drunk, underage and all, was with her 21 year old cousin).

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 15:35 ID:QBFIBpdl

Insecure and needy boys get dumped just as fast as insecure and needy girls. Imagine your girlfriend asking you about your sexual past. She wants to know what you did to where, why, and when. Do you think telling her these things is going to make her fall in love with you more? Even if you've been chaste its not appropriate to ask.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 16:08 ID:OzDxk9MN

Everyone makes mistakes, no matter what kind they are. Maybe she did. Maybe she was like that when she was younger.

But ask yourself one thing: is it how she is now? And who do you love, the one she was or the one she is?

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-26 23:13 ID:0L7PvD26

I had this girlfriend that told me everything about her past (fuck, suck, fuck with other men even while she was pregnant and in a relationship). Her lies, how she deceived and used other people, she told me everything.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-27 10:07 ID:+aANWugb

>If you really love her though, be contented with what you know. Don't force her to spill out her past

This sums it all,...

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-27 10:33 ID:Heaven

>>4
I wasn't telling him not to want to know about it, just not to react badly because of stuff she did.