I posted, and then thought about it too hard.
>Lesbians? How did you meet your hookups?
Simple,... check on the web for meeting sites dedicated to lesbians. You'll find enough diversity to suit your tastes.
I have a friend who is lesbian and many gay friends. According to them, it is more difficult to realize if a girl is lesbian than if a guy is gay... unless she is a butch and knows how to repair you car.