My fellow Secret Admirers, we come in all types. Some of you are happily involved in a relationship with someone you treasure. This thread is not for you.
Some of you bounce from relationship to relationship, continually experiencing the pain of separation, but always finding someone to whom you can turn. This thread is not for you.
>People who are sick of false words of encouragement and trite phrases like "everyone has a special someone, somewhere." We know that's not true
If people say that to you, its because you act like such a pathetic individual that they feel they need to offer you consolation to make you feel better about yourself. If you are actually happy with yourself, it will be observable to others that you are happy with life and don't need their words of encouragement or a relationship.
>>If people say that to you, its because you act like such a pathetic individual that they feel they need to offer you consolation to make you feel better about yourself.
>>This little corner of /love/ shall henceforth be our own.
To what fucking avail, brother?
cheer up man, i'm sure there's someone special for you out there.
>Or they could just, you know, keep it to themselves.
I feel like laughing...
How old are you nerdlings?
>How old are you nerdlings?
>have your own personality
If you look at life like that, you'll never, ever get anywhere. It's not a matter of finding "the one." I've fallen in love before, and for one reason or another, it's never worked out. I fall in love with unavailable girls, gay girls, girls who live far away from me, girls with boyfriends; I've had one real relationship, which was lovely until we grew apart. All this has given me one tip: take things lightly. Have fun. So what if she's a raging lesbian? So what if she lives halfway across the country? So what if there isn't anyone at all? Laugh at yourself, make fun of yourself for your constant singleness. Laugh at yourself for being so fucked up that you can never fall for anyone you can have. Have fun with life, and stop taking things so seriously. Because that's a fuck of a lot better than wallowing in self-pity.
And even if not, you still had a little fun while you were here.
this is stupid, you are basically pissed about not being in love yet you do nothing to change yourself from that situation. yes it sucks being alone. i know it far too well. im 23, always have been single ive never made out and i am still a virgin, but shit, even i aint as pessimistic. yeah im single, yeah things probably will stay that way for a long while. but being emo or pissed about it aint gonna do a damn thing either. learn to let it not bother you and u will at least be happier. shit, i have anime and games and sports to keep me busy. it will suffice until i find love.
>>you are basically pissed about not being in love yet you do nothing to change yourself from that situation
If you think its disrespectful, then think again. True, randomly callin a girl a bitch is likely to go nowhere but down, but it can also be a playful term.
Also, Just cause I asked for how to deal with a certain girl doesnt mean I cant hold my own. Dummy Ive been fucking.
disregard that I suck cocks