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[relationship issue]frequency of meeting up (8)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-16 18:17 ID:IWa3vvm2

its bugging me occasionally that my girlfriend doesn't seem like alot of other girls in that she's okay with meeting me infrequently ie. once a fortnight is okay with her. i've seen many other girls complain about not meeting their bfs enough.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-16 18:36 ID:BfHmwowY

Just accept that in this case you're the one who wants to increase the frequency, and negotiate that with her, like any normal couple. Don't start introducing gender issues into the mix,...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-17 03:51 ID:ODKxftr8

There's some merit to your concern; girls who are "into you" will be all over you. IM, e-mail, text messages, gifts, she tries her hardest to prevent you from forgetting about her. She wants to see you again as soon as possible.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-17 05:20 ID:93pMNLPI

>>3

10 months. we live very near. yeah she's got a lot of family commitments and her own friends.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-17 08:09 ID:mIlXVBPI

maybe you should give her a surprise visit and see if she's cheating on you. Just make an excuse like at her doorstep out of the blue and says that you feel like kissing her .... have you guys even get physical yet...?

6 Name: SpireAtlanta : 2008-02-18 02:22 ID:THSqzMuN

>>5 is paranoid.

OP< if you want to spend more time with her, then ask if that'd be alright with her and see what you can work out.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-21 15:14 ID:DBY7+092

>>6

OP here. yeah i agree 5's being paranoid.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 03:01 ID:THSqzMuN

>>7 You're a good guy, 7. You just need to realize that some people have a very casual approach to life, and some have a very set routine. This may be something that shows the two of you to not be compatible in the long run. My advice is to just try to let your fears settle.

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