...and about half an hour ago I messaged her over facebook saying we should talk sometime or you know right now. Now I am all, why the hell did I do that. I sound like a creep and she barely knows me either. Fucking facebook. Making it so much easier for me to be an idiot. Arhghghghg. Now have the sweats and I am embarrassed as hell. Fuck me, I should be studying.
Whatever doesn't kill me can only make me stronger.
So you are saying I should do whatever the hell I can think of and if no one lynches me, then I only gain XP points. Great. Oh God, I can't imagine how embarrassed I will be when I go to class on Monday. She isn't in my classes but she has friends there. I just wish she would reply, goddammit.
You afraid of something like that... really.
Wow, let me put it to you this way. Fucking be a big man ya know. Come up with some shit. Tell her what you wanted to talk to her about was her day. Do some shit like that, make her laugh. But dont insult her or you.
One should be fearless and consider nothing forbidden that our soul craves for
Also, let us know what happens on monday.
From extensive personal experience, embarrassment gets far more tolerable in measured doses over many years.
Also, stop thinking about it.
Don't worry about it so much! If you just asked her to talk then it's not that embarassing.
I think once you take a risky plunge you always feel really nervous afterwards... Don't be too worried, though, all you did was ask to get to know her.
What if your soul craves for a suit made out of a woman's skin?
Girls like oral sex. Go for it.
Advice = Chill out. You asked to talk. Tell her you just wanted to know some more about her because she seemed interesting. Come prepared with questions that aren't routine and aren't too personal, such as what movies she's seen lately, what movies she's into, if she plays any games, what hobbies she has, if she's going to X event that's supposed to be popular, etc.
so, what happened?
Nothing happened is what. She didn't reply and my cursory searching for her in the building didn't turn her up. What the hell, I am pissed. You think I should go back to the building and look around? Though how I am going to get the willpower to do that is a mystery. What must she be like to not reply, I don't know.