Nobody's ever shown the slightest interest in me. I don't know why. Granted, I'm not much of a looker, but I don't think I'm hideous and the general populace of my college isn't exactly stunning either. I'm shy, but not nearly as much as some people. I don't think there's too much wrong with me in any particular way, but I've still got nothing, and most other people do or have been loved at some point. It's crushing to my self-esteem; I hate it.
The irony is when you've completely given up and stop caring about it at all, someone will randomly appear right when you don't want them to.
>It's crushing to my self-esteem.
It's a vicious circle. The more you let it crush your self-esteem, the less people will tend to love you.
>>2 Speaks the truth! It's when you aren't looking that you find that you come to care about someone you randomly meet! Your self-esteem shouldn't be based on whether you're with someone, that's something it took me a long hard time to realize!
You're probably dull and/or ugly.
Start dressing nice and people will like you.
as sad as it is, >>5 is right. Also- i've seen really ugly people in relationships. You're not as bad off as you think you are. it's probably just bad timing or something
You were born alone
You will die alone
Love is just nothing
If you believe all these people about how we all die alone and realationships are a waste of time, then you're gonna internalize it and become like them. But I dont think you want that since youre here typing.
So here's my 2 cents.
OP, I was once in your shoes and sort of is. However, I have improved a lot in the past couple of months. I'll tell you a bit of myself, I recently came from a certain state to this state that i'm currently living in with a deep shy personality and hatred for myself. I wore oversized shirts that hangs down past my crotch and jeans all the time... I didn't care if my clothes match.
patience is a virtue. you'll eventually meet a nice girl. don't consume your time sulking over the fact you're single. that'll just make you feel like the way you're feeling now.
if you're really impatient and you can't find a nice girl. turn gay. the gay people i know don't have trouble finding relationships.
I've come to believe that looking at people is a huge part of it. Recently I heard a speaker say, "Always approach the wallflower first, and then quickly move on, if you don't know where to go at a party.. Well.. unless it looks like there's a Reason you shouldn't approach them."