Hey /love/, I normally just lurk here and what not. Sometimes for pointers, sometime for teh lulz. But now, as most of these threads go. I need some pointers...
Here is the situation:
Do whatever you like.
You are on the right track. It's okay to be paranoid as long as you don't let it show. Most girls are turned off by that sort of neurotic type. It will be better for everybody if you just act confident.
>>1 Someone please fix this formatting disaster.
Advice: She may just be the touchy-friendly nice type, and you shouldn't push her boundaries. How to not do so? Just say that you're sorry if she has to leave the production, and then mention that you have been glad to have her company and tell her that you like her. (If she doesn't seem to get it, rephrase "You're attractive.") If she doesn't respond, say you wanted to say that in case you wouldn't be seeing much of each other.