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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-03 16:32 ID:Ch6lDfvf

and okay. i need some advice...
me and my gf broke up yesterday, and i didnt feel sad or anything (i did the breaking up) and we yelled at eachother. but then she called back and she was saying how she thought all the fighting was her fault and she wanted me to give her a second chance. i told her that i dont really have feelings for her anymore because i wanted it to be a clean break, but she kept on begging me to give her a second chance and asking me why i wouldnt give it to her. i just felt so bad because she really just wanted another chance to make things up even though she knew my feelings for her were kinda gone, but she knew that if things went well there might be a small chance they come back. i only see her as a good friend right now... am I doing the right thing? by giving her a second chance? she know's how i feel, and i know she still more than likes me... i dont want to hurt her, but am i doing the right thing by going back with her? i feel as if i'm playing with her feelings and i dont like it... but, she also might go out with her ex bf to get me jelous and that kid is a total dick, and very abusive. what should i do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-03 18:59 ID:awrtg861

>>1 If she fucks up and goes with a jerk for that reason, too bad. You can't play her savior or she'll never grow up, an neither will you.

Break up and stay apart.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-03 20:15 ID:Jg0sY1ob

Why have you lost your feelings for her?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-03 20:36 ID:Heaven


Don't go out with someone just for compassion, that's despicable. You wouldn't want someone to go out with you for compassion, would you?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-03 20:48 ID:3xt/mY+L


6 Name: da PG king : 2008-03-03 21:48 ID:xmyNRTJ5


Thats a hard decision your going through...

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 05:53 ID:NiATfVTe

okay, yea that's the most basic answer i could think of. only thing is, she's really cool. i'd like to be able to keep her friendship. so the "break up" and "staying apart" would go hand in hand

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 09:54 ID:IqxdUf9q

Well if you split up and she goes off with her ex, then you can start seeing that other girl and she can't really complain. If you make a fuss about her and her ex and she still decides to see him then she can't complain to you that the friendship is over because you went against her advice and started seeing the other girl.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 09:54 ID:ATR3YdPO


Why is this so hard to understand?

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 17:02 ID:awrtg861

>>7 That's the point. Break up AND stay apart. The girl isn't worth having as a friend as long as she's so immature, and change is going to happen when you don't have contact with her.

11 Name: da PG king : 2008-03-04 19:00 ID:PFIoZeiV

>>7 What you gotta do is straight up just get you a slut dont worry bout them other girls.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 19:26 ID:Heaven


shit, both of you are convincing PGs :(

13 Name: da PG king : 2008-03-04 21:29 ID:xmyNRTJ5

>>12 Nikka fuck you, this is the PG to the C, mothafucka.

Aint no one can take that away from me!

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 21:34 ID:pL3T7B6Z

fuck em both dawg