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I like him, but... (28)


1 Name: Chou : 2008-03-09 08:27 ID:kKEfXRn0

I have this friend of mine that I've been planning on asking out, but I haven't been able to do it. I mean he's really nice, and I think I'm over the LOL RELATIONSHIP DRAMA! everyone else seems to have, but maybe I'm going a little to fast and I don't want to ruin a good friendship if it doesn't work out. I see him everyday so it'd get kind of awkward. And I'd feel guilty if it worked out because I heard from a friend that someone else likes me, but didn't do anything about it when he/she heard that I wasn't interested in dating at the time. In the past when a guy would ask me out, I'd turn him away. Could I be initiating the relationship to keep from losing control or was I really not ready? Someone help me sort out my teen drama pls! D:

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-18 20:00 ID:fxD87SAe

> Next time a girl want to watch a romantic chick flick with me and puts her head in my lap, I'm whipping out my cock

A popcorn bucket with a hole in the bottom is much more subtle.

20 Name: Chou : 2008-03-19 10:51 ID:kKEfXRn0

>>18
It wouldn't be fine, rape is bad. Girls just try it less, and the guy's usually too embarrased to admit to being raped by a girl, so he acts like he wanted it.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-19 14:28 ID:m8pm06+c

>>16

If he's an art student, chances are he actually enjoys looking at art, so I wouldn't worry too much about it reminding him of school. I would suggest trying to find an art exhibition thats not the same old portraits etc, maybe something a bit more modern and fun, perhaps something participatory? Then you can bounce ideas off each other about what the art means etc.

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22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-19 18:00 ID:fxD87SAe

>>20

Usually it's the comparatively weak physical strength, lower sex drive, absence of aggressive and competitive behaviour, and the lack of a penis that prevents women from raping men.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-19 18:20 ID:RADyRhhf

>>22
lower sex drive? lol
different sex drive? Now we're talking, see lack of penis

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24 Name: Chou : 2008-03-20 00:48 ID:kKEfXRn0

I saw him, but I was rushing so I totally forgot to get his phone number. Crud.

>>23
Then she thinks in some backwards way she's justified, when she's just a bitch.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-23 01:29 ID:kKEfXRn0

We never got around to actually going out.

I feel kinda bad because I made the plans and had to cancel because I realised I didn't have any money and didn't want him to pay because I asked him out. And he was at the movies waiting for me. Well, this is going to be an awkward Monday.

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-24 03:43 ID:eYChFhl7

He's going to think you're just toying with him, to be honest. But hang in there! Don't give up hope! Make up for it by showing him that you're really serious.

But I also have to second guess you. I mean, not having any money is widely regarded as a bullshit excuse to cancel a date. I'm sure you could have borrowed some money or went to an ATM or somehow otherwise procured some cash. Are you subconsciously trying to sabotage this relationship because you're afraid of getting hurt?

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-26 23:50 ID:2bsDHVnv

If your money thing was indeed true, you can just go and tell him. I'm a guy, and I like women who make themselves clear - it saves us a whole lot of trouble.
"Uh, ya know, I cancelled cause I was outta cash, and I didn't wanna make ya pay." would sound nice. Maybe a bit broke (of course!) but it's a good start. So you can just add something like "But if you want, we can do something that doesn't require spending at all. I wanted to see <insert something you could buy LATER ON, or just same lame excuse here please>, you wanna go with me?".

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28 Name: Chou : 2008-03-30 05:07 ID:kKEfXRn0

>>26
Partly because I don't want to lose a good friendship, but most of the time I am broke. God, I need to get a job.

Plus pride gets in the way of borrowing more than a few bucks that I can't pay back for a while cause I'm in debt. Imagine college D:

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