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Well theres a guy I like..... (9)

1 Name: Zimie : 2008-03-23 02:58 ID:vKJZd6Kq

And I do want to ask him out, however, he's two years older than me, and he graduates this year. We like the same things (anime, manga, games) but, I'm afraid. The last time I ask a guy out, he ends up going out with my closets friend. I been afraid since it ask anyone out. He's also my friend. and my other friend dont even know about these feelings. Only my sister and my dad.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-23 03:24 ID:bxJhOqyu

lol ur dad?
Just ask him out, it is ok to be afraid, it is the people who have courage to fail a lot who succeeds.

3 Name: Zimie : 2008-03-23 03:35 ID:vKJZd6Kq

thanks, I dont see him until Tuesday, so maybe I'll get the courage to do it.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-23 03:52 ID:bxJhOqyu

You won't, especially not the moments before, then it will all crash down and you'll feel like the biggest coward ever, you can't build courage with time.
Don't think it over

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 00:54 ID:gxyP4SAW

What happened? Did you ask him out?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 02:22 ID:Omyfc0Z9

lol.. wow .. courage there.. i can never get myself to ask a guy out.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 02:28 ID:GcN7wt1V

Afraid of confessing? welcome to the male world. If you don't do it the "what if.." is going to haunt you to death while if you do it the worst that could happen is being rejected.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 22:23 ID:XX3M8ExS

What do you value more? His friendship, or the chance to be with him?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-07 02:45 ID:gxyP4SAW


I am a guy and frankly this is what us guys hate the most. Why not? It's not unimaginable thing to do if a girl asks the guy out. One thing is common though. We don't like cockiness if a girl wants to ask us out. Else than that, everything is OK and no guy will look down on you or anything because you asked him to go out. For once in whole human history, we (guys) want girls to consider and experience how hard it is to actually ask somebody out. Even playboys have the same instinctive fear of rejection and fall short as any other guy when they actually do it. I am talking about asking out girls that we DO like, not just somebody you meet on the street.

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