I got my ass through college without really paying attention to the opposite sex, and now I need to make up for lost time. I'm just looking for something casual right now, especially since my first relationship will probably just be a dress rehearsal. Help?
you got all the way through college, and still 0 xp with females? One of the best opportunities has passed by. An official n00b@life, you have now resorted to asking for help from a place with a high population of socialy incompetent nerds.
Understanding that your first relationship will probably be a dismal failure is a good start. You must gather a significantly more experience before hoping for sucess in a real relationship.
So, what I'm reading is, "if you haven't dated in college, abandon all hope."