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I just have to tell somebody! (27)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 14:30 ID:aYOpUhU8

I just confessed yesterday to a girl that I've been good friends with up till now.

It was on the subway platform, halfway to her home. We were talking all the way there - then continued a little bit when we got off the last train (she still had to take another one). And I confessed.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 14:45 ID:kg9yj4wZ

how old are you OP? i'm in a similar situation but i don't know if "confessing" is a good idea... it's usually a way to drive away girls

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 14:50 ID:pMhh4S6A

awwww... did she say anything in return? What was her reaction?

Let her know that it was not a joke.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 15:20 ID:RauroLAZ

>>1 finally a happy ending;) goodluck man, :)

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 15:45 ID:01Mjr5LR

this touched my heart ;_;

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 16:03 ID:pMhh4S6A

opps didn't read the last part!!!

oh that's so sweet!!! congrats!

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 16:18 ID:pMhh4S6A

opps didn't read the last part!!!

oh that's so sweet!!! congrats!

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 17:17 ID:p5XWvmFA

opps didn't read the last part!!!

oh that's so sweet!!! congrats!

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 19:59 ID:QXMCPKa4

>>2

Generally confessing is a bad idea unless you know 100% certain that the other person feels the same. And even then, don't use the word love etc - just say "I like you" level of things.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 20:25 ID:nMGl4Sx8

Good job! That must have taken a lot of guts.

Good luck to you guys~!!

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 22:48 ID:aYOpUhU8

Thanks everybody!

>>3
Yea she had a reaction. Well it took a while - actually, to tell her that. I can usually communicate well enough in everyday life in Japanese, but we usually talk in English. So when I said "I like you", I had to add the word "a lot" and then when she still didn't totally get it "more than just a friend".

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-02 22:50 ID:aYOpUhU8

>>2
oh yea I forgot. I'm actually 21...I'm such an embarrassment to the male population hahaha >"<

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-03 02:21 ID:pMhh4S6A

haha, congrats once again!!

such a cute story! I guess she knew it wasn't a prank because you were probably all red! XD
Have fun celebrating april fool's day from now on!

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-03 05:24 ID:wmD/Jh8x

I are envious to no end!

>_<
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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-03 15:43 ID:nXSg0a2X

congrats mate...

i broke up on april fools and i sure wish it was a prank.

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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-04 01:09 ID:rXRyQxdx

congrats, now capitalize on your gains and secure your victorious position

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-04 03:34 ID:VAKCnYSd

congrats man! Hey you never know what the other person is thinking/feeling. Sometimes you just take a risk. Losing is better than not wining at all!!!

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 01:15 ID:aYOpUhU8

OP here.... that's what I am on this thread, right? (I don't even know what it means)

...WELL...

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 01:51 ID:52+ZNuLn

I feel angered that you get to have the cheesy anime relationship that I thought never existed.
Also congrats

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 02:19 ID:aJuriym7

lol... a curfew at 8pm!!! How old are you guys?!?!

But so sweet nonetheless.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-05 12:32 ID:Heaven

Nono not a curfew at 8am, but she has to start leaving at 8am as there is a transit time.

22 Name: OP : 2008-04-05 13:30 ID:aYOpUhU8

hahaha yea, i know...I couldn't believe it when I heard it.
I'm 21, she's 20. So a curfew at this age uhh... SHOCKED me a bit.

I haven't had friends with curfews for at least 6 years... didn't know what to say.

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-06 19:09 ID:VAKCnYSd

>>22

lol a curfew is actually sweet thing even at 20. It means that she has a good family education. As old-fashioned as this may sound, you're a lucky guy finding such a girl today... Treat her well and don't worry about the gaijin thing. Her parents will accept it, just continue to show them how much you care for her. And respecting her dad's 'curfew policy' is step #1 :)

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24 Name: OP : 2008-04-07 10:34 ID:fmDMgm6o

Thanks, 23.
I'll think about it more and hopefully will learn to appreciate the fact.

Yea it's going pretty well even with the curfew I think. At least it forces us to take things slowly, which is probably better... right?

25 Name: OP : 2008-04-07 10:35 ID:fmDMgm6o

Thanks, 23.
I'll think about it more and hopefully will learn to appreciate the fact.

Yea it's going pretty well even with the curfew I think. At least it forces us to take things slowly, which is probably better... right?

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-07 23:19 ID:Heaven

curfews are boring.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-08 03:10 ID:hMvsIM9s

>>25
Depends on how experienced you are... My observation has been with two inexperienced people, slower is better. One experienced person means things can move a little faster, since there's no first relationship awkwardness with one party.