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Asking Someone Out (5)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 04:51 ID:mPTvNVaO

How should one do it? When should one do it? Where should one do it?

There's not really anyone I'm particularly interested in, but at the same time I want to get into the dating world. I'd rather just take some, almost random, person out for coffee or lunch or something of the sort, without necessarily having to get to know her before hand.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 06:06 ID:+Bo3JvBp

it can be done. It's best to behave very casualy about it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 09:54 ID:Qjl6ZCP7

>I'd rather just take some, almost random, person out for coffee or lunch or something of the sort, without necessarily having to get to know her before hand

That's possible, but when you ask her you need to make her feel like shes known you for a long time already (e.g. comfortable talking to you) even if you've only just met

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 16:38 ID:I/mb4Y4o

>>1

And make it look like a friend-to-friend asking out. If you show intentions at once, it may freak her out. It takes more time for girls to start liking somebody in romantic way. With guys, stereotypically speaking, we're after skirts in no time.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 21:42 ID:cItO+/+u

just ask her, no hesitation, no fear. just go out there and do it. i know it seems like a large, almost impossible but after awhile it becomes a chore.